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tearsonthegrave

25 / M / Straight / Single

Trenton, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Cancer
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish

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I am tolerant, optimistic, and open minded.

My Self-Summary

Why should you message me first? well because most guys on these sites are creepy perverted ***holes. I am none of the above. I am a mature, laid back, kind, open minded, independent individual who can think for himself. I have no expectations, but I wouldn't mind meeting someone cool to hang out and maybe date. i would love to have a amazing girlfriend, but Im not desprate. I find that the more people I talk to the more I hear about douche-bag guys ruining it for the ones who are nice. I treat people with respect and expect it in return. I hope it's not coming off too strong. I just can't stand idiot guys treating women like objects and they think it will get them somewhere. If you like what you see, drop me a message, I will respond to all.

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really im just looking for cool people to maybe be friends with. everything after that is up in the air. I want to maybe date or just to get to know someone. i dont want to jump into anything. I just rather get to know the person first. Where it leads to who knows but im not expecting anything.

I enjoy horror movies, video games, and music. I play synths and as of this past month have been giving piano lessons. I think im a kind and gentle person that wants the same. personality is probably the most important thing to me. if we dont click on the personality level how can anything else work. I enjoy talking to random people i dont know.
Im usually online and i will respond.

What I’m doing with my life

trying to finish my degree. trying to accept the things i can not change.

I’m really good at

making people laugh, expressing myself, creating, reflecting, thinking, imagining, and the most important being myself.

The first things people usually notice about me

my eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

i couldn't survive if i had no music!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life and the pursuit of happiness.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I think Star Trek is way better then Star Wars.

You should message me if

you want to talk!