What's most important to me is not only seeing, but doing spectacular things. I'm looking for people to share that with, and to cheer them on in their spectacle. I'm a scientist, both in my professional and personal life, and that means doing the experiment!
I'm non monogamous: married to Whisper_girl for well over 15 years. Sex positive, kink friendly: I tend toward dating women, but play nicely with others. My hobbies include: writing nonfiction with a bent toward subversive content and awareness expansion, infrared photography, and I participate in hacker spaces for biotech/science. I'm an avid answerer of top content on Quora. In a previous life, I was a tea chemist.
I want to date: thinkers, doers, Makers, Hackers, Burners, pornographers. I am more liberal than many of my liberal friends, and more conservative than some of my conservative friends. I don't believe in just one right answer. Very little is "off the table".
If you read this, make the first move: it helps me know there's consent and desire, both of which are very important to me. I prefer meeting for coffee or other casual safe spaces early on, so that we can both gauge the chemistry.