We're on a road to nowhere, come on inside. -TH

What's most important to me is not only seeing, but doing spectacular things. I'm looking for people to share that with, and to cheer them on in their spectacle. I'm a scientist, both in my professional and personal life, and that means doing the experiment!

I'm non monogamous: married to Whisper_girl for well over 15 years. Sex positive, kink friendly: I tend toward dating women, but play nicely with others. My hobbies include: writing nonfiction with a bent toward subversive content and awareness expansion, infrared photography, and I participate in hacker spaces for biotech/science. I'm an avid answerer of top content on Quora. In a previous life, I was a tea chemist.

I want to date: thinkers, doers, Makers, Hackers, Burners, pornographers. I am more liberal than many of my liberal friends, and more conservative than some of my conservative friends. I don't believe in just one right answer. Very little is "off the table".

If you read this, make the first move: it helps me know there's consent and desire, both of which are very important to me. I prefer meeting for coffee or other casual safe spaces early on, so that we can both gauge the chemistry.

Science!

Improvisation and living in the moment.

The height and the hair.

I have found myself most influenced by writers, including Margaret Atwood, Doris Lessing, Umberto Eco, William Burroughs, and Josef Škvorecký. More recently, I have fell in love with the world of Hugh Howey's Wool. My interests include dystopia, uchronie, epics, surrealism, Oulipo, physical comedy, Making, genomics, genealogy, pandemonium, quanta, fusion, posthumanism, abundance, informatics, ontology, the eighties, Carcassonne, electronica, Delicatessen, The Prestige, The Hudsucker Proxy, pierogi, and miraculin. I consider myself well read in theology, physical science, classics, occultism, and philosophy. I aspire to be better read in feminism, socialism, and mathematics.

Good company, good food.
Things to explore.

My senses, my wit.
Patience.

Semantic Ontology.

Trying to take over the world... ummm....

I have somewhat unrequited fetishes involving tall women, redheads, d/s, tea service, and cumswapping/creampies. You ask, I answer. I have no expectations of future partners fulfilling these fetishes, btw, and few of my long term partners share all of my interests.

You've clicked with any of the sketches or words on my profile, or one of my extended answers on the questions. Meeting in person and chatting about whatever is where I'm most likely to see if we click. Invite me out on hijinks! Pervy friends, even if we don't click in our perversions, are highly valued. Tourists welcome.

I'm using "rating stars" to ping people who catch my eye and have an interesting profile. If I don't message you instantly it's because I am bandwidth limited: feel free to grab my attention! Although play partners and friends are welcome, I'm more interested in semi serious to serious dating and people to take classes and lectures with.