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59 Boston, MA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:00pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Has a kid
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My thirteen year old daughter, whom I co-parent, is a central part of my life. Intellectually bent but not broken.I read voraciously. I am profeminist and left of center politically. I work out regularly and staying fit is important to me. I want love and tenderness back in my life.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've been working for many years in my field and find it very fulfilling; I believe I'm making a substantive contribution to social change, and my work involves periodic travel throughout the United States and other parts of the world. My relationships with my daughter, family, and friends are very important to me, as is my alone time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching, telling jokes, being responsible, communicating clearly, being a good friend and dad, being honest with myself and others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My energy, my humor, my love of talking and eating.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Hours by Michael Cunningham; Alice Munro's short stories; William Trevor's short stories; Plainsong by Kent Haruf; Set this House in Order by Matt Ruff; "What the Living Do," by Marie Howe (poetry); "Empire Falls" and "Bridge or Sighs" by Richard Russo.
Movies: Hugo, Lone Star, After the Wedding.
TV: The Wire, Six Feet Under, Sopranos, Friday Night Lights, Deadwood... etc.
Music: Jeff Beck, Leonard Cohen, Joni Mitchell, Adele, Laura Marling, Ben Webster, Sarah Vaughn, Bach.
Food: Steak, sushi, great pasta, wine, good IPA and Porter, barbecue, big salads.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, my daughter, my exercise program, books, political activism, good food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, my daughter, sports, intellectual and practical issues related to my work, my significant other (when I have one).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the gym, putting my daughter to bed, either going out or reading or watching a great show or movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can be very intense.
You should message me if
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You are politically liberal or further left, you have an intellectual bent, you enjoy sharp-edged humor and lots of laughing, you are straightforward and clear in your communication with others, you are fit and interested in health and fitness, you are actively engaged in the world and have a varied and fulfilling life, and people describe you as kind and compassionate.