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42 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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  • Ages 38–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 6:56pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Hindi (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I jumped out of an airplane at 10,000 feet (and recently 13,000) because heights made me nervous. They don’t anymore.

One year, in order to reform my workaholism, I quit working (cold turkey) for 5 months by choice. It was amazing, I travelled and relaxed for the first time in years. I am now more balanced about taking time to chill.

I can hang lights, change electrical sockets, assemble nearly anything, and have never met a gadget I didn’t like. Yes, I have my own toolbox. And I've only mildly shocked myself twice. Once I flew off a ladder from the force of it and my first reaction was "Cool, I landed on my feet so gracefully" before thinking "Oh wait, that could have ended badly."

I grew up in Manhattan and went to public schools in NYC.

I spent a month volunteering in Costa Rica with disabled adults. I didn’t speak a word of Spanish, but I do now., about 7 of them. I also spent a week in July 2009 volunteering in Kenya, working on a school building which involved getting really filthy from head to toe! In 2011, I went to Brasil to volunteer and relax. July 2013 was Morocco working with severely disabled, abandoned kids -- humbling and heartbreaking. 2014: India for 3 weeks. Basically, I'll do anything for a good cause. Locally, I've been in Staten Island, the Rockaways and other Sandy-impacted communities to help families with property damage as well as lots of other causes in NYC. Ask me about it.

My niece and nephew are my two favorite people in the world. They know it and play me, and I love it. Kids are amazingly clever, sweet and funny.

I backpacked through Spain for 2 weeks in my mid-30s. I stayed in youth hostels and slept on trains and met interesting people from all over the world. I also love a luxury vacation but keeping it real is essential to me.

My closest friends describe me as smart, independent, a patient listener, compassionate, fiercely loyal, habitually tardy, and very mischievous.
What I’m doing with my life
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Walking. Sleeping. Balancing. Helping. Organizing. Recycling. Brushing. Rinsing. Repeating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
volunteering for things, chopping veggies, fixing things, breaking things, and looking up things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My two front teeth are solid gold and I have a face tat. That's not true, but who knows what people notice about me? I hope it's my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: 1. What is the What -- slightly fictionalized story about the lost boys of Sudan. It breaks your heart over and over again and re-affirms one's faith in the human spirit and its indomitable will to survive.
2. anything written by David Ives; he has such quirky random humor
3. anything by Rohinton Mistry (but such powerfully sad stuff about poverty that I need 2 year breaks between books)
4. classics: love Dickens, Bronte sisters and actually read Shakespeare for fun sometimes
5. really anything that strikes my fancy from the Glass Castle to the true story behind Friday Night Lights. I find it hard to choose favorites when it comes to books and appreciate that there is a vast world of reading out there.

Movies: Inception; Memento; Prometheus; Princess Bride; Monty Python and the Holy Grail; Crazy, Stupid, Love; Bringing Up Baby; The Philadelphia Story (Hepburn version); Roman Holiday; Sabrina; Charade; Sweet Home Alabama; Love Actually (hey, at least I'm honest!); Star Wars (original trilogy); anything sci-fi, action, or suspense thriller (but not so much with the horror or gore)
I like plenty of other movies, but the above are ones that can, have been, and likely will still be watched repeatedly.

TV Shows: Sons of Anarchy; Modern Family; Firefly; Fringe; Newsroom; Suits; Game of Thrones; Homeland...

Music: I pretty much listen to anything. Love alternative, hip hop, and rock. Always looking to hear new sounds.

Food: Thai, Greek, Sushi, Chinese, Indian, Cuban, Ethiopian, Brazilian, Mediterranean, I love it all, except mackerel, anchovies, and canned tuna.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family: Hugs and kisses from the niece and nephew
Change of scenery: A trip to...anywhere 3-4 times a year
Expanding my mind: Books, they are my first love
Exercise, all kinds: I love that adrenaline boost
Hygiene: My toothbrush - I like to be minty fresh!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-what is my global footprint?
-how might we make the world a better place in small and large deeds?
-why do people do awful things in the name of religion?
-does zero gravity exist?
-what if you time travel and meet yourself in the past?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...drinks/dinner/movie or just chilling in with a bottle of wine and a good friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My social security number ends in...1234.
You should message me if
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-you are smarter than the average bear
-you worry about the environment
-you deplored George W. and his cronies
-you can laugh at yourself
-you are tall, easygoing, calm, and funny almost goofy-- and you keep an open mind

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