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telegramsam007

45 Fort Wayne, IN Man

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  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Job
Technology
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm 45 years old. I've spent time as a soldier, electrician, accountant, data center operator, and PC technician. I've built small networks and large ones. I'm familiar with most computer issues you may have. I like to help people and to be of use with my skill-set. Currently I work as IT Manager at Belmont Beverage Stores of Northeast Indiana. I love my job and the people I work with are awesome.

Most of my adult life has been defined by helping people and working with technology.

Currently - those two skills mesh nicely in the work I do, and I like that very much.
Also, it pays the bills.

The machine is a little older, but everything still works great.

I carry several industry certifications and will be collecting more soon.

If I had to list my interests: Photography, Digital Camera, Coffee, Ancient History, Books, Buddhism, Cold War History, Conspiracies, Counterculture, Evolution, Film Noir, Fine Arts, Horror Movies, Mythology, Self Improvement

In 2013, I married my girlfriend of four years. Thanks Cupid! that's where we met!

[Update] - recently (a few months) I've begun to consider that I might be a little uptight about cuisine and diet. I probably don't eat like you do. I don't eat a lot of meat (perhaps 25% of my meals, at best) and I don't eat the "typical" American portion. I'm not dieting, just attempting to have some healthy discipline about what (and how much) I eat. Probably drive someone nuts, I'd imagine.

From My Facebook Profile:
I like to collect photographs of the people, places and events that affect my life, the way other people might make a scrapbook. Although I am both an expert marksman and fairly athletic, I care for neither guns nor sports.

Never underestimate what you can do without.

I have no enemies and I can't understand why anyone would keep track of such a thing. I do not follow any religion. I can't be spiritual, but I do like yoga and meditation.

I am a survivor of the 1980's. inescapably, the music, film, and style still permeates the fabric of my life.

I like Photography, Coffee, Ancient History, Books, Buddhism, Cold War History, Conspiracies, Counterculture, Evolution, Film Noir, Fine Arts,Horror Movies, Mythology, Self-actualization

[Still reading?] Although I'm married, my wife and I have an open-relationship style arrangement. I'm actively/casually seeking new activity partners, particularly female, (but boys are cool too). Willing to consider something more serious in the future. My nesting partner is always primary, but dating and girlfriends are encouraged between both of us. Meeting my wife would be a necessary step, for anything past coffee and conversation. Potentials must be well-adjusted, adult and authentic.
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I am mindful, focus, and calm.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Settled in Fort Wayne, managing IT controls for a local retail liquor store chain. love it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to watch and critique movies, but I don't do TeeVee. Conversation, and coffee drinks are good stuff. I can probably fix your computer.

I've become a casual fan of wine from South America, and Spain. Rum with Ginger Beer is quite yummy too. In the right season, Long Island Iced Tea is amazing.

I've recently gotten back into Warhammer 40k. I do love toy soldiers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall. and skinny. I wear glasses. New dog is salt and pepper terrier mix.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Once Upon a Time in the North, battle royale, filth, H. P. Lovecraft, johnny the homicidal maniac, squee, at the Mountains of Madness, Dude, Where's My Country?, Choke, Fight Club, The Hipster Handbook, Sex- Drugs-and Cocoa Puffs, How to Be a Villain, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?, How to Fix Damn Near Anything, 30 Days of Night, I am Legend, Band of Brothers, Blindness, Lord of the Rings Trilogy - I am horribly spoiled by amazingly hip librarian friends. The Princess Bride, Diary, Good Omens, American Gods, Never where, The Golden Compass, Guns of the South, Lyra's Oxford, The Ten-cent Plague, Wanted

Movies: fight club, Bram Stoker's Dracula, ran, lord of the rings, matrix, the ring, miller's crossing, Koyanisquattsi, Amelie', Raider's Series, Elizabeth, Tron, 28 days later, spider-man, the Virgin Suicides, Magnolia, Igby Goes Down, Army of Darkness, Angel Heart, The Empire Strikes Back, Memento, Say Anything, Alice in Wonderland, Zardoz, Beckett, The Resurrected, Re-Animator, Dagon, Definitely, Maybe, Full Metal Jacket, City of God, The Man Without a Past, Chaos, Band of Brothers, House of Fools, Batman Begins, The Incredibles, Ravenous, To Kill a Mockingbird, In the Mood for Love, 2046, Everything is Illuminated, Brick, Watchmen, Wanted, Delicatessen, Dark City

Music: Ab Ovo, Aimee Mann, Air, Apoptygma Berzerk, Assemblage 23, Samuel Barber, Bauhaus, Thrill Kill Kult, David Sylvian, Dead Can Dance, Depeche Mode, Diary of Dreams, Din Fiv, Eels, Enigma, Front 242, Front Line Assembly, Frou Frou, Laibach, Imogen Heap, Natalie Merchant, Jane's Addiction, Joy Division, Love & Rockets, Muse, Moby, New Order, Smashing Pumpkins, The Residents, Pavement, Peter Murphy, Portishead, Radiohead, Smashing Pumpkins, The Smiths, VNV Nation, The Beatles, Tom Waits, Negativeland, XTC, The White Stripes, Stendeck, Muse, Jem, Sia, Mission UK, Sisters of Mercy

I enjoy cooking and eating all kinds of food. I'm totally omnivorous. I promise never to make a dish too spicy as that can really ruin the mean for those who don't like hot food.

good writing. very fun. Unhooked from TV since 2003.

I consider being well versed in literature and film a virtue. If not, I'm happy to loan books and watch movie with you.

From My Facebook Profile:

Books: Watchmen, battle royale, filth, H. P. Lovecraft, johnny the homicidal maniac, squee, at the Mountains of Madness, Dude, Where's My Country?, Choke, Fight Club, The Hipster Handbook, Sex- Drugs-and Cocoa Puffs, How to Be a Villain, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?, How to Fix Damn Near Anything, 30 Days of Night, I am Legend, Band of Brothers, Blindness, Lord of the Rings Trilogy - I am horribly spoiled by amazingly hip librarian friends. The Princess Bride, Diary, Good Omens, American Gods, Neverwhere, The Golden Compass, Guns of the South.

Movies: Watchmen,fight club, Bram Stoker's Dracula, ran, lord of the rings, matrix, the ring, miller's crossing, Koyanisquattsi, Amelie', Raider's Series, Elizabeth, Tron, 28 days later, spider-man, the Virgin Suicides, Magnolia, Igby Goes Down, Army of Darkness, Angel Heart, The Empire Strikes Back, Memento, Say Anything, Alice in Wonderland, Zardoz, Beckett, The Resurrected, Re-Animator, Dagon, Definitely, Maybe, Full Metal Jacket, City of God, The Man Without a Past, Chaos, Band of Brothers, House of Fools, Batman Begins, The Incredibles, Ravenous, To Kill a Mockingbird, In the Mood for Love, 2046, Everything is Illuminated, Brick.

TV Shows: TV is a stain on our culture. Network news is a dinosaur of propaganda and lies.

no TV in the house for 6+ years...not missing it either!

Netflix and hulu fit way better!.

Music: Ab Ovo, Aimee Mann, Air, Apoptygma Berzerk, Assemblage 23, Samuel Barber, Bauhaus, Thrill Kill Kult, Displacer, David Sylvian, Dead Can Dance, Depeche Mode, Din Fiv, Eels, Enigma, Front 242, Front Line Assembly, Frou Frou, Laibach, Imogen Heap, Jane's Addiction, Joy Division, Love & Rockets, Moby, New Order, Smashing Pumpkins, The Residents, Pavement, Peter Murphy, Portishead, Radiohead, Smashing Pumpkins, The Smiths, VNV Nation, The Beatles, Tom Waits, Wumpscut, Negativeland, XTC, The White Stripes, Stendeck, Muse.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sex. food. wine. coffee. internet. my dog. internet, sex, food - rinse, repeat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future. technology. civil disobedience, Tolerance, Pussy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying eating out, reading, watching movies and playing games online.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have this bizarre fantasy that lovers can also be friends. I have this equally bizarre fantasy that love, loyalty, affection and attention could be enough.

Have you defined what exactly "enough" is for you? Consider it.

Lately, I'm asking myself this a lot.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you can accept that I am beyond conversion to whatever you believe in. If you have a sense of humor that stretches from monty python to Metalocalypse. I'm horribly busy during the week, but usually free on weekends and evenings, when I'm not managing kids and dogs.