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45 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 28
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
A little extra
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm successful, very romantic, and a kid at heart. I seek someone who loves to laugh and have super amazing child-like fun, but who can also be serious and enjoy deep conversations.

I love music and work at a music downloading site. I like going to cool joints and seeing new bands.

I love movies, cartoons/anime, some TV in general, cooking, and (shock!) even shopping! I know! Not many straight guys would admit that! I kind of dig clothes shopping and finding cool thrift places with odd retro items for sale.

I've got tattoos. I used to have body piercings, but no more.

I have worked freelance in photography and graphic design and still do shoots if asked.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Management at music downloading site. Tennis with friends a few times a week. Shooting pics as the mood strikes me. Watching anime currently airing in Japan and preparing to take Japanese lessons in Fall/Winter 2015. Eventually will return to Boxing, but only when totally ready.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being comfortable with myself and who I am, being a very affectionate person, some sports like tennis, boxing and basketball, graphic arts, cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm deceptively quiet at first. I'm shy until I get comfortable, which usually takes only a few moments. I am very polite and very nice. I appear to be a very conservative type of guy, but once you get to know me, you'll find I am not.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Prisoners, Lost in Translation, Best In Show, The Royal Tennenbaums, The Shining, The Outlaw Josey Wales, The French Connection I and II, honestly, too many movies to rattle off here. I watch a fair amount of movies.

TV: I'm a HUGE anime fan and watch shows that are currently airing in Japan on my computer. Otherwise, I liked the Fargo series, True Detective, Hannibal. Just started watching Transparent with my roommates. Way too many good TV shows and ways to get them now.

Music: Way, way too much here:

Yuck, The History of Apple Pie, Sareena Maneesh, Ringo Deathstarr, The Beatles, Guided By Voices, Fugazi, Pizzicato Five, Yo La Tengo, AC/DC, R.E.M. (Green album and prior), The Replacements, Husker Du, The Smiths/Morrisey, Al Green, Marvin Gaye, The Apples In Stereo, The Band, Beastie Boys, Beck, Dylan, Dino Jr, Elton John, Foo Fighters, Chicago, Gorillaz, Lemuria, Long Winters, Ride, Spoon, Stereolab, Stevie Wonder, Superchunk, Talking Heads, TMBG, U2, Weezer, The Who and many, many more!

Food: There is very little I dislike, but I am a carnivore.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, Anime, Love, Friends, Family, Sun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Only when I'm on here: Why is it that anyone you feel you'd be the perfect match for won't reply to your messages? Am I right folks? What's the deal? Are these people afraid of being adored? Are they afraid to be truly loved and desired?

Outside of here: What the holy heck is happening to this world? What happened to the ideals my generation was working toward? Why are we all hating so much? Why do we all feel that much more entitled?
You should message me if
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You can appreciate/subscribe to a certain level of geekiness.

You love music and have a wide appreciation for it. (Not a music snob)

You believe connections on a deep level are more important than any other factors.

BTW-Long distance is okay! I enjoy traveling.