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36 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am looking for someone open to exploring polyamory. I want a relationship where my partner pushes me to be the best I possibly can. In return, I can promise that I will notice the amazing things about you and tell you about them. I will support you and push you and ravage you and make you laugh. At the same time, I want someone who is alright with the idea of building an intimate relationship with me while knowing that you are not necessarily the only romantic relationship in my life.

In the near term I'm focusing on some career things for myself, so I could see being a secondary partner with someone or a primary partner with someone who is also busy and seeing where things go.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Still figuring that out, but I like helping people and being around people, so I do a lot of that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at glancing at a profile pic and knowing if you're a lawyer. Not sure how I do it, but I'm pretty accurate.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How quick I am on the draw and how true my aim is with my trusty Colt Peacemaker.

Or at least that's the *last* thing people usually notice about me. Or the last thing they notice about the fictionalized version of me that combines Matthew Quigley with Doc Holliday.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lots of stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intimate connections (friendship, love, lust)
Learning and other forms of discovery (e.g. travel)
Internet. It's just one of those things that - now that I know it exists and am so connected to it - I couldn't imagine not having. Maybe it should be included under the previous entry on this list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make the world a better place (read: increasing social justice). How to live a more authentic life. Social psychology, history, public policy. People close to me. The future. Women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yes, I am. [nods solemnly]
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a weird addiction to emoticons. The old school ones made with punctuation and letters. And I always put a nose on my faces. :-)
You should message me if
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You want to meet in person to see whether there's a spark. I'm not asking for a private meeting in a dark alley - just a simple meeting in a public setting so we can actually see what the other is like. I feel that I can tell more about our potential chemistry in 5 minutes of in-person conversation than in dozens of emails.