tenjqkace
37 Los Angeles, CA
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My self-summary
tl;dr: I am looking for someone open to polyamory. If you're not open to that, then you should move on and best of luck to you!

I am looking to fill my life with passion. Activities and people that I am passionate about. Activities and people that make me come alive. And I want to do the same for anyone who shares in my life with me. I want to fall in love. I want to fall in lust. I want to look at you in a way where you know how I feel about you and that maybe even makes you see yourself in a different light. Then I want to ravage you right then. I want us to both be happy to spend the time we get to spend together and be grateful for what we bring to each other's life. I want someone who is excited by the idea of building an intimate relationship with me while knowing that you are not necessarily the only romantic relationship in my life. And I don't expect to be the only one in your life, although that's your call.

In the near term I'm focusing on some career things for myself while also seeing an amazing woman, so I don't have a ton of time, but trust me that if we have a connection, I will make time and whatever time we have together will be well worth it.
What I’m doing with my life
Still figuring that out, but I like helping people and being around people, so I do a lot of that. Ideally I will find a job where I'm earning money while fighting for social justice. Right now I'm a lawyer who takes a lot of pride in the fact that people are surprised when they learn that fact.
I’m really good at
Seeing the awesomeness in other people.

Also good at kickball, remembering random things but forgetting names (SO good at that), sincerity, thoughtfulness.

And I'm handy. I made my own secret bookcase door last Fall. For reals. And it turned out pretty well. Check that off the bucket list.
The first things people usually notice about me
It'd probably be my smile or laugh. Otherwise I have no idea. What did you notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lots of stuff. I like all art more if it expresses something connected to the artist's personal experience and connects to change the artist wants to see in society. Of course, it helps if I want the same change (just being honest).

For food, I like just about all food except big chain fast-food (In-n-Out is good stuff, though).
The six things I could never do without
Passion. Passion. PASSION.
Intimate connections (friendship, love, lust)
Learning and other forms of discovery (e.g. lectures, documentaries, travel, discussion, debate). I'm super-curious about the how's and why's of the world.
Something to fix or improve
Coffee
Beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make things better. I know that's not descriptive, but I really just think about how to make just about anything better. Or at least anything I can understand.

How to get out of my own way so I can do more and be more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Yes, I am. [nods solemnly]
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I stole my Friday night answer. The person I got it from is no longer on this site, so I figured it's ok.
You should message me if
You want to meet in person to see whether there's a spark. I'm not asking for a private meeting in a dark alley - just a simple meeting in a public setting so we can actually see what the other is like. I feel that I can tell more about our potential chemistry in 5 minutes of in-person conversation than in dozens of emails.
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