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36 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–39
  • Near me
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My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:11pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My favorite word is duende. Mostly because of how it sounds, but I also love this definition for it: The ability to attract others through personal magnetism and charm. I aspire to have duende.

Things I love: Life. I love to laugh and have a good time. I love karaoke and dancing. I LOVE learning. In that vein I loved law school, but have some serious problems with the profession of law. Also, I love connecting with people. Whether it's a 15 minute conversation in a cafe or a long and loving relationship/friendship/something-in-between, I love feeling that connection with other people. Sometimes you can pack an unbelievable connection into a short period of time if you dispense with the boundaries and expectations we normally put on ourselves.

Things that I don't love... Inconsiderate people are high on the list. People who can't or won't empathize with others. People who don't take a critical look at their own views from time to time disturb me.

I've always been curious about this site's ability to match people. I mean, the scientist in me believes that it's definitely possible to give a rough indication of compatibility through these questions, but I remain skeptical due in part to the enormous amount of crappy questions on here.

I am passionate, silly, curious, jovial, and genuine.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to squeeze the best I can out of the abilities and time I was given.

My heart wants to do as much good as I can. My ego wants to rule the world and end up on Mount Rushmore. I've gotten good at controlling him, though.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Modesty. I'm probably the most modest person in the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You know, instead of "winks" on this website, they should make something called "the first thing I noticed about you." That would get rid of the lameness of both winks and answering this question about yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
First, with respect to all art I have a much greater appreciation for it if it contains a potent social or political message.

a) Almost exclusively non-fiction, but I hope to get back into some good novels again soon. Favorites include A People's History of the United States, Lucifer Principle, Dancing Wu Li Masters, The Sun also Rises, The Odyssey, America: The Book.

b) Documentaries and TED Talks are great because learning is awesome. Fight Club, American Beauty, Unforgiven, Fugitive, Ace Ventura, Royal Tenenbaums, Children of Men, Few Good Men, Happy Gilmore, Shawshank Redemption, Swingers, The Dark Knight, District 9...

c) Just saw that I hadn't updated this in over a year and it didn't really reflect the music I'm into these days. Suffice it to say that my tastes are broad, but lyrics with a potent social message always get extra points.

d) Mmmm... food. Japanese, Indian, Italian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican, American, fusion, etc. I don't like every dish, but there is food in every category that I really like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intimate connections (friendship, love, lust)
Learning and other forms of discovery (e.g. travel)
Internet. It's just one of those things that - now that I know it exists and am so connected to it - I couldn't imagine not having. Maybe it should be included under the previous entry on this list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make the world a better place (read: increasing social justice). What I want to be doing with my life. Sociology, history, politics. People close to me. The future. Women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Washing colors and whites in the same load of laundry. END GARMENT SEGREGATION!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a workaholic with a huge lazy streak.

And I look like my pictures.
You should message me if
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You are willing to meet in person after one or two messages. I'm not asking for a private meeting in a dark alley - just a simple meeting in a very public setting so we can actually see what the other is like. I feel that I can tell more about our potential chemistry in 5 minutes of in-person conversation than in dozens of emails.