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  • Ages 48-65
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Last online
Today – 5:47pm
6' 0" (1.83m)
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Doesn’t have kids
English, German, C++
My self-summary
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Techie, singer, musician, tennis player, hiking group leader. I have enjoyed travel throughout the USA and many places in Europe, Asia and Australia.

My usual vocation as systems analyst, creating loose harmony between people and machines, was aided by an academic background in psychology and computer science. I am a prodigy of UNL's experimental stepchild -- Centennial Education Program.

I have no addictions, loose ends or skeletons in the closet. I am confident but not cocky. As an INTP, I am a bit introverted but I can fake extroversion. I am a 60+ active, youthful, and still evolving latent wanderer. I have a taste for the quirky, the absurd and a dry sense of humor.

I was an active bicyclist during 10 years living in Germany. I traveled a lot thanks to Europe's very convenient train systems. The next nine years were in lovely Honolulu, one of those rare places where my office could easily be identified from aerial postcards: inside Hawaii's Diamond Head Crater.

Moving on: I am an unapologetic rational liberal. I especially enjoy open, challenging, stimulating, witty and sometimes intellectual conversation. I am not a party or crowd person and I feel more comfortable one on one or in small groups. I am usually a very considerate person.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love southern Nevada for year-round tennis and hiking but due to my dormant wanderlust, I am considering relocation elsewhere. I prefer warm, sunny, progressive and musical. California is one of my top preferences although I am now toying with the idea of expat life overseas for a few years, possibly in internationally popular Antalya or relatively peaceful Fethiye, both on the Turkish Riviera aka Turquoise Coast. Another possible destination is English-speaking Cape Town, South Africa.

expat research
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
musical improvisation, imagination, pattern-recognition, online research & distilling complexity into more compact and useful forms. I am also alleged to be skilled at massage.
The first things people usually notice about me
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[-- Insert humor here. --]   Oops, can they see this?

Borrowed: a twist on my favorite OKC cliché:
* "I've been told I look weeks younger than my age ..."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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-Movies- Big Chill, Solyaris+Solaris, Before Sunset, Boyhood, Contact, Dave, 2001 A Space Odyssey, Annie Hall, Back to the Future, Zardoz, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Pleasantville, Source Code, Midnight in Paris, A Beautiful Mind, Avatar & many others ___________________________________________________
-Television- PBS/BBC - especially NOVA and science stuff, Futurama, Austin City Limits, Bones, Star Trek TNG, Jon Stewart, Big Bang Theory, Bill Maher, Rachel Maddow, Anthony Bourdain, Neil deGrasse Tyson's StarTalk ____________________________________________________
-Food- when eating out - typically spicy - Thai, Vietnamese, Turkish, Korean, Szechuan ||| when at home - semi-vegetarian
I am fond of German (not Californian) Dornfelder red wine ____________________________________________________
-Music- My favorite styles are blues, rock, progressive rock, indie, punk, R&B, old-school soul & gospel, and soft jazz / funk / world ---- Try my online 250 station Compact One-Click Radio Jukebox
A few old groups/artists Crosby Stills & Nash, Neil Young, Steve Miller, Pink Floyd, Stones, Jimi Hendrix, Led Zeppelin, Beatles, Yes, Who, Todd Rundgren, Doors, Steve Winwood, Joni Mitchell, Clapton, Fleetwood Mac, Van Morrison, Elton John, David Bowie, Doobie Bros, Steely Dan, James Taylor, Cat Stevens, Jimmie Spheeris, Al Green, Marvin Gaye, Keith Jarrett ___________________________________________________
Somewhat more recent Prince, U2, Depeche Mode, Pretenders, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Nirvana, Clash, Eurythmics, Crowded House, Police, K D Lang, Alanis Morissette, Sting, Sheryl Crow, Seal, George Michael, Sade ___________________________________________________
More recent Norah Jones, Lenny Kravitz, India Arie, Joss Stone, Sneaker Pimps, Joe Bonamassa, Craig David, Dave Mathews, Tedeschi Trucks Band, No Doubt, John Mayer, Alexi Murdoch, Amos Lee, Gary Clark Jr. ___________________________________________________
Favorite Classical Shostakovich, Puccini, Bartok, Debussy
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
summer: tennis | winter: improvisational guitar and singing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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“We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.”
--- Dr Seuss / Robert Fulgham

Curious about decades old (19) quirky "dark" poetry?
Here's my Whispers From the Fire --

Sadly, I'm also kind of a news junkie (MSNBC/PBS/online)

"To a philosopher all news, as it is called, is gossip ..."
--- Henry David Thoreau

My latest geek-worthy web project: HomeNet Wi-Fi Media Server
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... in soft tones, your keen intuitive senses unexpectedly speak to you and it's late and you're just too damned tired to resist.

In other news: it's a subjective practice but I tend to only click on profiles with a fairly high OKC match. I will note that a partner who smokes, even infrequently, would just never work out.