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tennisbi

44 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Aug 5, 2013
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You know, I've had this phrase in my profile for the longest time: "Looking for a LTR with someone local. No long distance." And so of course, what just happened? I found the love of my life, we did it long distance for a year and a half, and now we're shacked up together in California. Frakkin' ironic, isn't it? :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living la vida ursa in San Diego. Previously I've lived in the East Village and Chelsea, and Philadelphia and San Fran/Oakland, and Poughkeepsie, and Zürich, Switzerland.

I'm an ex-organizer of local bisexual groups in New York, Philly and San Francisco, and I do very occasional volunteering with the group in San Diego. I've headed the African-American alumni association of my alma mater in the past. I also help random strangers with their computer problems.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Software.
Making friends and acquaintances.
Volleying.
Recalling maddening bits of trivia, esp. from 70's/80's TV.
Facebook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I'm with friends: my piercing, boisterous laugh.
When I'm alone: my quiet intensity.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Mom.
Friends.
Music.
Laughter.
Playing tennis.
Public transportation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Tennis, my upcoming wedding in 2014, taking a real vacation one of these days, convergence, my NPR addiction, the war, our crumbling US educational system.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing tennis with like-minded LGBT individuals at the public tennis club; eating something delicious in a moderately expensive restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I give the impression of being The Guy That Makes The First Move, but I'm actually The Guy Who Hangs Back And Doesn't Make A Move. Please use this information responsibly. :-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you value honesty, integrity, hard work, and a drug-free lifestyle.

... you are passionate about the things you do, whether it is the quality of your work, how you play volleyball, or how you mop the floor!

... you are tolerant of other peoples lifestyles, since we ask others to be tolerant of ours.

... you love and appreciate humor in its many different forms.

... you understand that we have rights because we also have responsibilities, to ourselves and our communities.

... you understand the differences between the homosexual, bisexual, queer, and same-gender-loving orientations, or you seek to understand those differences.

... the little voice in your head is telling you to

And last but not least: ... you can go out and have a great time with one drink or less.