tennisbi
45 San Diego, CA
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My self-summary
You know, I've had this phrase in my profile for the longest time: "Looking for a LTR with someone local. No long distance." And so of course, what just happened? I found the love of my life, we did it long distance for a year and a half, and now we're shacked up together in California. Frakkin' ironic, isn't it? :)
What I’m doing with my life
Living la vida ursa in San Diego. Previously I've lived in the East Village and Chelsea, and Philadelphia and San Fran/Oakland, and Poughkeepsie, and Zürich, Switzerland.

I'm an ex-organizer of local bisexual groups in New York, Philly and San Francisco, and I do very occasional volunteering with the group in San Diego. I've headed the African-American alumni association of my alma mater in the past. I also help random strangers with their computer problems.
I’m really good at
Software.
Making friends and acquaintances.
Volleying.
Recalling maddening bits of trivia, esp. from 70's/80's TV.
Facebook.
The first things people usually notice about me
When I'm with friends: my piercing, boisterous laugh.
When I'm alone: my quiet intensity.
The six things I could never do without
Mom.
Friends.
Music.
Laughter.
Playing tennis.
Public transportation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Tennis, my upcoming wedding in 2014, taking a real vacation one of these days, convergence, my NPR addiction, the war, our crumbling US educational system.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing tennis with like-minded LGBT individuals at the public tennis club; eating something delicious in a moderately expensive restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I give the impression of being The Guy That Makes The First Move, but I'm actually The Guy Who Hangs Back And Doesn't Make A Move. Please use this information responsibly. :-)
You should message me if
... you value honesty, integrity, hard work, and a drug-free lifestyle.

... you are passionate about the things you do, whether it is the quality of your work, how you play volleyball, or how you mop the floor!

... you are tolerant of other peoples lifestyles, since we ask others to be tolerant of ours.

... you love and appreciate humor in its many different forms.

... you understand that we have rights because we also have responsibilities, to ourselves and our communities.

... you understand the differences between the homosexual, bisexual, queer, and same-gender-loving orientations, or you seek to understand those differences.

... the little voice in your head is telling you to

And last but not least: ... you can go out and have a great time with one drink or less.
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