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29 • New York, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–37
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 16
- 5′ 11″ (1.81m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
So, summary. I’m a Ravenclaw who likes to hang with the Gryffindors and will probably end up with a Slytherin. I hail from the frozen wastes of New Hampshire, spent the bulk of my twenties in Southern Florida, and have been in NYC for just shy of two and a half years.
I’m at a stage where I’d like to start dating again. I’m still figuring a few things out (primarily professionally/creatively), but I enjoy meeting new people and would ultimately like to find someone to share the experience with. I’m also always on the market for work-out buddies, friends, creative collaborators, or fellow gamers (more on the last two later). Intelligence, creativity, kindness, self-awareness, and sense of humor are all traits that I value (and like to think I possess).
My M.O. with dating apps tends to be to move to the date sooner rather than later in order to avoid falling into the chat limbo that seems so common (particularly to OKCupid). Have a favorite bar? A far-flung “best _______ in NYC” you’ve been wanting to trek to? An exhibit or event you’re keen to check out? Let’s go! If not, I have a few.
Movies: I have a thing for horror. I enjoy trashy gay comedies a little too much. I get down with the Marvel franchise. Anything with Julianne Moore; I could watch that woman file her nails.
TV: Whedonstuff, Supernatural, Drag Race, most BBC programs (you should watch Black Mirror if you haven’t)
Music: I’m not too picky. Tend to be pretty showtune-centric.
Food: All of the food, please. Seriously.
1.) Games. There’s just something about having a competitive and intellectual outlet which provides social context that really works for me.
2.) Writing. Even when I’m not doing enough about it, I’m thinking about it and it’s affecting my life.
3.) People. This probably factors into the above a bit, but people are just way too interesting not to have around. Friends fall under this heading as well.
4.) Food. I love to eat, I eat a lot. I’ve struck a pretty nice balance between healthy and hedonism. I enjoy cooking, but don’t do it enough, and I love finding new favorites in the city. I’ll spend more transit time on food than I will on most things.
5.) Humor/Laughter. I think that generally “humorously” is the best way to do anything, whether it be address a sensitive topic or get to know someone. Obviously there are times where seriousness is required, but far fewer than most people seem to think.
6.) … I’m hard-pressed to come up with a 6th. Sex, probably? I’m pretty capable of going without for a stretch, but it’s good work if you can get it.
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