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30 Brooklyn, NY Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23-37
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 11" (1.81m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a geeky guy living in Brooklyn. Kind, funny, smart, kinky. I'm ultimately here to find something of substance, and for me that starts with a bit of chatting and then meeting up if it seems like there's something sparking.

INTJ, Griffinclaw, Jeskai, Chaotic Good.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in health and fitness. I also cohost a geeky podcast. Most of my free time is spent gaming or doing things related thereto, or just catching up with friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting myself in other people's shoes. Reading comprehension. Playing Devil's advocate. Adapting.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People who know me are taken aback by my recent lack of beard. Other than that, haven't the foggiest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This tends make for great conversation fodder, so I'll keep it general. I tend to enjoy geekier things, but am also very open to other spheres of culture. I'll read anything someone I enjoy recommends.

My tastes run both broad and deep; I'll usually find something I like that's tangential to another thing I like and then devour it, whether it be a series, filmography, or the works of a particular author.

Food is awesome. I'll eat anything. First dates to favorite or interesting restaurants are actively encouraged.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order…

1.) Games. There’s just something about having a competitive and intellectual outlet which provides social context that really works for me.
2.) Writing. Though I'm non-practicing right now, I still can't help but look at the world through a writer's eyes.
3.) People. This probably factors into the above a bit, but people are just too interesting not to have around. Friends fall under this heading as well- I have some great ones.
4.) Food. Not in a canned "you need food to live" way. In a "I spend an egregious amount of time thinking about what I'm eating next" way.
5.) Humor/Laughter. It's a social panacea. What's not to love?
6.) Debate. Any point of view that can be challenged should be challenged.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How many more hits my profile would get if I could contrive to be photographed on a sailboat, with a dog.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try not to have typical Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I missed out on several twenty-something development years due to a very-long-term relationship that didn't pan out. I've been making up for lost time since getting out of it, with mixed results.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've got your shit relatively together and are looking for something serious. I'm not averse to other possibilities, but my free time is pretty scant, so what I have of it I've decided to throw at dating.

Also: please have good politics and be sex positive. It's just not going to work out if that isn't the case.

Finally: geeky guys obviously. Particularly M:tG or DnD oriented ones.