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tenofsw0rds

29 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 1
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am relentlessly me. I tend to exist in extremes, and am not for the faint of heart or thin of skin. I make friends fast or not at all, and I prefer it that way.

I'm not looking for anything serous here, but not discounting the fact that I might just stumble into it. My life has been a confluence of coincidences of varying degrees of late, and I'm curious to see what the world is trying to tell me with them.

Message me if you'd like to come along for the ride, I guess. Oh, and because it interests me and seems to come up, INTJ.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in health/fitness and keep pretty fit, though I'm still undoing the results of years as a couch potato and a penchant for all sorts of food. I'm trying to get back into writing, make new connections, explore old connections, and am contemplating getting serious about Magic: the Gathering.
I’m really good at
You should really just find out for yourself (and creating suspense!).
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm better looking than my pictures indicate (provided they're meeting me from online). Otherwise it's dealer'a choice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Mostly fiction, and my tastes vary. Bret Easton Ellis, Michael Chabon, Neil Gaiman, and Gregory Maguire are consistent favorites.

Movies: Just about anything that isn't a rom-com.

Shows: Game of Thrones is the only show I'm keeping up with right now. I've been intermittently watching Attack on Titan, and will probably binge watch House of Cards and OITNB soon.

Music: Ben Folds, Jason Mraz, Stephen Sondheim, Jason Robert Brown, Disney stuff, assorted other show tunes

Food: All of the food, please.
The six things I could never do without
Self-reflection, people to talk to and/or watch, something to read, healthy competition, sex, meat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Renting a dog to enhance my OkCupid profile picture roster. Is that a thing? Renting dogs?
On a typical Friday night I am
Working a little late then either relaxing or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I recently called a guy out for texting during a date and then had a conversation with him about his skewed sense of physical attractiveness that wound up being pretty interesting.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You've read this and are interested in meeting up after a little more exposition. My preference is to grab a coffee, drink, or engage in some other type of innocuous social activity that enables conversation sooner rather than later.