Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


29 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 20
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am relentlessly me. I tend to exist in extremes, and am not for the faint of heart or thin of skin. I make friends fast or not at all, and I prefer it that way.

I'm not looking for anything serous here, but not discounting the fact that I might just stumble into it. My life has been a confluence of coincidences of varying degrees of late, and I'm curious to see what the world is trying to tell me with them.

Message me if you'd like to come along for the ride, I guess. Oh, and because it interests me and seems to come up, INTJ.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in health/fitness and keep pretty fit, though I'm still undoing the results of years as a couch potato and a penchant for all sorts of food. I'm trying to get back into writing, make new connections, explore old connections, and am contemplating getting serious about Magic: the Gathering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
You should really just find out for yourself (and creating suspense!).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm better looking than my pictures indicate (provided they're meeting me from online). Otherwise it's dealer'a choice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Mostly fiction, and my tastes vary. Bret Easton Ellis, Michael Chabon, Neil Gaiman, and Gregory Maguire are consistent favorites.

Movies: Just about anything that isn't a rom-com.

Shows: Game of Thrones is the only show I'm keeping up with right now. I've been intermittently watching Attack on Titan, and will probably binge watch House of Cards and OITNB soon.

Music: Ben Folds, Jason Mraz, Stephen Sondheim, Jason Robert Brown, Disney stuff, assorted other show tunes

Food: All of the food, please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Self-reflection, people to talk to and/or watch, something to read, healthy competition, sex, meat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Renting a dog to enhance my OkCupid profile picture roster. Is that a thing? Renting dogs?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working a little late then either relaxing or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I recently called a guy out for texting during a date and then had a conversation with him about his skewed sense of physical attractiveness that wound up being pretty interesting.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've read this and are interested in meeting up after a little more exposition. My preference is to grab a coffee, drink, or engage in some other type of innocuous social activity that enables conversation sooner rather than later.