I am pretty laid-back, open-minded, easy-going, mature,
intelligent,
sweet and
caring guy. I am also the calm,
collected type of person that is stable and wanting to meet
normal, civilized
people for great life-long friendships or more. I go where life and
the wind takes me. My heritage is half Japanese and half Chinese
and I was born in Houston, TX. The only language I know fluently is
English (sadly enough) and a few words here and there of Spanish,
Japanese, and
Chinese. In my
free time though I like to do what most people do... watch
movies,
read a book, hang out with
friends, play
games
(all sorts - card, board, video, etc etc.). Most of my info I am
taking from myspace at www.myspace.com/jacktan if you have one and
want to add me.
listening and observing.
My smile, my curiosity, and that I am sweet. Physically I guess
it'd be the smile that I usually have or my eyes.
Movies: Wall-E,
Ironman, Kung Fu Panda, Wanted, Dark Knight, Hancock, Forbidden
Kingdom, The Chronicles of Narnia, The Golden Compass, Speed Racer,
Horton Hears a Who, Bucket List, Spiderwick Chrnoicles, Penelope,
City of Angels, Princess Bride, Contact, Harry Potter series, Lord
of the Ring series, Star Wars, Pirates of the Carribean, The
Explorers, Disney Movies (Mulan, Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin,
etc.), Sleepless in Seattle, It Could Happen to You, It's a
Wonderful Life, Legend, Underworld, Interview with a Vampire,
Blade, The Craft, A Knight's Tale, Napoleon Dynamite, Charlie and
the Chocolate Factory, Escape to Witch Mountain, The Lost Boys,
Superman, Xmen, Spiderman, Meet the Robinsons, Comic book movies,
Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, P.S. I Love You, Must Love Dogs,
Bruce and Lloyed, 10,000 BC, Starship Troopers, and lots lots
more...I like all kinds really from comedies, action,
sci-fi/fantasy, etc... "Movies are windows that allow us to feel...
to cry, laugh, and fear. If you listen, movies help us learn
lessons we may otherwise have never learned or learned the hard
way. They gives us an opportunity to cry out our own heartaches
when no one is watching. Movies help us laugh when it seems as
though nothing else could. I love movies." I also feel this way
about books, tv, and music... there are just so many things that
you could never imagine and experience in your own lifetime...it
helps to view things through the perspectives of others.
TV: I don't watch much tv, but I do watch shows online. :) Some
that I enjoy include, but aren't limited to: Eureka, Dead Like Me,
Who Wants to be a Superhero?, Smallville, The 70's show, Everyone
Loves Raymond, Friends, Will and Grace, Babylon 5, Star Trek: TNG,
Enterprise, DS9, Voyager, Heroes, Xena, Hercules, Dresden Files,
Naruto, Bleach, IGPX, and other
anime.
Music: Alternative, Hip Hop, Dance, Techno, Trance, all kinds
really. Some favorite groups are Linkin Park, Michelle Branch,
Avril Lavigne, DJ Mystic, Garbage, Vertical Horizon, Three Doors
Down, Creed, Goo Goo Dolls, Matchbox 20, and much much more but I
usually just listen to the radio (Kiss FM, The Edge, Mix)
Books: Fantasy/Sci Fi, Self-improvement. Harry Potter Series. Glory
Lane, One Minute Manager, the Fred Factor
Authors I enjoy: Piers Anthony, Alan Dean Foster, Rick Cook,
Christopher Pike, Eoin Colfer
life, love, work, and the origins of the universe...? Also I think
about if "I will ever find the girl that completes me. yes yes,
that sounds rather sappy, but I don't care. :P heck, even I think
it's pretty sappy....but I guess everyone has their moments don't
they? :) I think about it because I am just not wanting to "just
settle". I've dated girls where the relationship is comfortable
enough, but it doesn't inspire and excite me the way I think it
should so I invariably let it go and move on. Thus, that's why I
think about what I think about. :P
Here is a quote from Meet Joe Black which is a movie I enjoy that I
think kind of compares the kind of love I'm looking for...:
William Parrish: Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live
without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up
with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like
crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find
him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any
heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because,
the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To
make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't
lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried,
you haven't lived."
Getting home from work and relaxing or going out with friends and
hanging out. Depending on the friend(s) we go out to dinner, watch
a movie, or play board/card/video games.
I am human just like anyone else. I have my faults and do have
doubts sometimes. I generally hide those things very well and I am
learned enough in the realm of presence to do a good job. I'd love
to find a girl that can see right through my facade and know when
something is wrong because most of the time I will shoulder things
on and hide things with a smile until I think up a strategy to talk
about what it is that is bothering me. This is not to say I am not
a good communicator, I am just respectful of other peoples feelings
and I talk about things diplomatically. I have been told that I am
"too nice" and "too sweet".
You are intelligent, open-minded, laid-back, down-to-earth, nice,
compassionate, and sweet. Also it'd help if we share similar
interests. However, I am always wanting to make great friends and
should something more ever come out of it then stellar, but I'm not
going to hold my breath. :P