Also, due to the nature of my work and our desire to not share this change with our daughter yet, I'm not putting up pix of me on here. Let's talk and if trust develops I am happy to share privately.
I am a giving guy who wants to be a romantic -- although I'm still learning how to. I have spent a lot of time giving to my community, and as the father of a couple of daughters I take my parenting responsibilities seriously as well, but as they are growing older it's time for me to spend some time looking for love and passion for myself.
Faith is an important part of my life and work, but before you write me off know that my beliefs lead me to generally lean left of center, believing that we were created for connection and that we have a responsibility to care for one another and the world. I am very open to asking the hard questions of life, faith, God, etc. and comfortable with living in the mystery without answers.
My personal passion tends to focus around music, both listening, playing and writing, as well as dancing a bit too. I'm a bit of an information sponge, but also have to let my artistic side out as well.
One of the great things about being older is that I am much more comfortable in my skin than I was at 20. Sure, I wish I were 50 pounds lighter and tall, dark and handsome, but I am who I am and there seem to be folks who think that is just fine.
If you are looking for black and white, I'm probably not the guy for I don't always conform to the expectations that folks place on me. But I think I can carry on a good conversation, and love to snuggle, kiss, and enjoy the presence of another.