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tenuoussunshine

42 / F / Bisexual / Single

Gloucester, Massachusetts

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 8:41am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hello, internet... If nothing else you are good for one who wants to reinvent themselves....

I am currently bored to death with Facebook, and I long to have meaningful and in-depth conversations. I want connection and sharing more than constant validation. In truth, I want to go back to the days of epistolary romance....
What I’m doing with my life
Working, living on Cape Ann and loving being so close to the ocean... I'm a practicing pagan, but I am open to many spiritual paths. I ended a long-term relationship and I am re-defining my dating experience.... I'm growing and changing and evolving and dancing... I'm reinforcing a paradigm shift by changing my thoughts to suit the highest good... or at least trying.. I write poetry and journal every day... I work hard and try to be responsible I believe that friendship is the basis of all good lasting relationships, and that there is no substitute for honesty and good communication.
I’m really good at
Being open to cognitive dissonance.. finding a little bit of truth in everything .... Finding the joy in life despite challenges... Thinking first before acting rashly. Seeking out simple pleasures in the everyday. Finding beach glass and heart-shaped stones
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a bit shy but I am a good listener... I get very passionate talking about what is important to me. I enjoy the arts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: love science fiction, fantasy, poetry
Music: Jethro Tull, Iron and Wine, Florence + The Machine
Food: organic and local..
TV: very little lately -- living on NETFLIX
Movies: too many to mention...
The six things I could never do without
books, cats, my electric blanket, the ocean, friends, chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can better the world and better myself... How to find a way of living and loving that is sane and sustainable. How to recognize the next member of the "Tribe"
On a typical Friday night I am
listening to live music, dancing for the fun of it, going to Kirtans, hanging out with friends,
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a deeply romantic soul
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 35–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You have been longing for someone to talk about poetry, nature, personal growth ... meaningful correspondence.... You believe that human beings are basically good and we are all works in progress. You believe that slower is sometimes better and that romance is not dead. You are not possessive or controlling. You can sincerely be friends with a woman...