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34 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:41pm
6' 0" (1.83m)
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Pretty snappy at writing limericks - no idea why, but perhaps, just perhaps, this talent sums it all up. It doesn't, but I'll still write you one.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"In awe of growing older among others doing the same. Spending time with people from many places, food and community work around Oakland, schools, systems/policy, solutions, commons, laughter, keep it simple but know it's complicated, fighting for what matters...matters, appreciating contrast and paradox... and lots of great music!"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Feeling capable working with what's at hand.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I learned to share, sometimes too well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A world without superlatives is that much better.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
opportunity for creativity
an array of people
big water
work with hands
the sustaining things
thinking and acting beyond the prompts
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
holding paradox the thing worth holding
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with people, with food, and with music - ideally all in a canoe or elsewhere
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you have a hunch and take it with an okcupid-sized grain of sea salt...

and you're cool with meeting for the first time in person being just that... meeting for the first time in person. Easy on the expectations. Let's not bring the butterflies, they can come on their own.