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32 M Oakland, CA

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Today – 10:17am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Don't worry about reading this stuff below - let's just meet in person. but if you HAVE to...

is limited by language and full of cliches (okay, goes without saying...)
so, the true cliches.... big heart. thoughtful nice. honest. open. love my friends. creative. principles trump fitting in. passionate about stuff that matters and acknowledge that privilege contributes to my ability to do so (blah, blah, blah - true, but blah blah blah). and more true cliches!

but then there are the other things, but honestly, openly, lovingly, and funnily, I don't want to waste our time reading about it. better to figure this stuff out in person.

or better yet, ask me questions. But at the least, if you're going to 'like' me, let me know with a message, 'cause I can't figure out how to find out otherwise - not paying to figure out stars and stuff.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I get the sentiment, but it's complicated and much more interesting to talk it out in person. Thankfully I'm enjoying what I've been up to the last while as it's quite rewarding, creatively, personally, and socially challenging. I think it also matters to folks across the board, serving to expand the commons and myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a friend ...seeing lots of dots and connecting them (what dots? you know THE dots); conversations that seem to matter when they happen; believing in people; admiring what others are capable of; putting my cards on the table - not a gambling man, but like to roll the dice and go with it; finding and creating common ground; seeing all sides while being passionate about many
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
blue eyes. credit to my mother.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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just read a collection of Wendell Berry essays. they hit home

food piled in the middle of a table with people around and limited utensils

music, live, played with and by friends... I picked up the washboard for this one (admittedly a little stiff around the edges!)

and the stuff that gets 'em dancing
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I like to think that I could do without most material things but....

...I keep living on, or very near the ocean, find myself in at least a garden a day, seek being creatively challenged, with music, seeds, and a boat full of friends and instruments!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
that farm on the island off the coast with that little cabin, sailing dory, and feet walking on mossy rocks to the wooden boat shop...

...and that I really like what I've got going in oakland.

doing things differently, 'cause we should
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
cooking dinner and playing music with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
knock knock.
who's there?
willing to admit to.
willing to admit to who?
willing to admit to WHOM!

so bad, it's good.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you thought about it for a second.