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33 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:42am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Summary happens best over iced coffee. hot too, nowadays.
What I’m doing with my life
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some themes seem to persist...
lot of people from lots of places, food and gardens around Oakland, schools, systems/policy, solutions, commons, laughter, keep it simple but know it's complicated, fighting for what matters matters, appreciating contrast and paradox...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Humility aside... tying a bowline. loving people. creative solutions. taking care. fish. being on, in, around water. thinking about living on an island in maine while loving life in oakland. building stuff, wooden stuff. working with my hands. getting people. welcoming challenges without being defensive. laughing with others and sometimes to myself. pretty keen observer. deflecting compliments with a smile. building bridges.
The first things people usually notice about me
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in the grocery store, the friendly checkout folks notice my eyes are blue. even both of them. out, people tell me i have a man bun and a beard... which comes as a shock.

all said, whether you noticed these things or not, I hope people see past them to that other stuff - like my designer pants and the new grip tape on my skateboard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
you tell me. or don't. let's chew on it together. yes, the chewing is important.

okay, but music that gets me dancing is the best... and the right music in the right place.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
opportunity for creativity
an array of people
big water
work with hands
the sustaining things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with people, with food, and with music, ideally all in a canoe - literally or figuratively.
You should message me if
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you want to.... and don't care to adhere to 'boys write first' shenanigans - cause I appreciate that

you're interested in meeting a nice human, and you're one too!

you 'get' people - all sorts

or you want to build a cabin on an island, one day. I'll build the dory. Okay, we'll build the dory. But let's start with a beverage (what a word).

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