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30 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Nov 11, 2013
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Very often
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of two-year college
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
WHOAAAAAAAA you clicked on my little picture.

I'm currently going for the I-have-a-beard-and-I-hope-you-think-that-is-sexy look. It's a phase, they all are. Oh, and I write a bunch.

I'm a traveling, programming, reading male into slam dancing and slam romancing who tends to gravitate towards biking, karaoke, good food and good drink, dancing, music and all that other stuff that makes life good. I take quite a few photos, too, I like to pretend I'm a photographer and would like to pretend I'm an artist one of these days.

I'm probably what most people would call very active on the internet, very social, and very outgoing (though of course I feel pretty average amongst my awesome friends).

I go through style changes pretty regularly but you're more likely to see me in jeans and a white t-shirt than anything else. Or a stupid hat. I also tend to wear dresses when (in)appropriate.

Besides San Francisco, I've also lived in Canada (Vancouver), Europe (Amsterdam, Berlin, London) and Asia (Tokyo) for times varying from months to years. I grew up in a suburb and don't think I could ever live in one again.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Wow, way to get serious, website ;)

I've started going to a bunch of concerts again, buying more records and in general being more musically active.

I'm down to start cooking again, I've been supremely lazy of late, but it would be nice having a co-conspirator I can learn new things from (hint hint). I also think it would be nice to take a cocktail course with somebody to improve those skills.

Mostly I seem to hang out in the sun and read books.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not being embarrassed and knowing lots of people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to make the same face in all my photos, though I tried to pick some alternates for the ones on here =O
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* How to become an adult and grow old gracefully. I'd like to be able to be happy taking life slowly, I figure that probably happens a bit automatically as life slows down, but I still worry a bit that maybe it will slow down before I am ready to slow down.
* Science fiction and how to live in the future, and what I would do if I existed inside a computer, and how to still be interested in life if all questions had already been answered, and what it would be like to be in orbit around another planet, and what it would be like to see another star up close, and what kind of art would exist when we only have to think something for it to exist.
* Ways to convince myself to fold my laundry.
* What's for lunch. It can get pretty debilitating around 11am.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A little tired from the events of Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday nights but willing to rally.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not super relevant anymore now that I am in a relationship (unrelated to OkCupid, for whatever that's worth) but this field used to have is: I'm actually on here because I'd like a relationship relationship instead of casual sex situations and I tell myself I threw the casual sex thing in as a gag... but... yeah.
You should message me if
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* Enjoy schralping the karaoke gnar.
* Have a cute smile, I'm a total sucker for that shit.
* You will fly somewhere random with me on a whim.
* You've ever been in space. I'd get past a lot of personality flaws for some space cooties.
* You think it would be a fun idea to run around town together taking pictures of each other.
* Already know me, think this profile is a ridiculous lie and want to up your contact new people number.
* Other.