What I’m doing with my life
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I am a 58yr old African American Cherokee mix on my father's side.
I am retired due to macular degeneration. I have had several
sucessful careers in my life one of the most rewarding was my 20
plus years as a Respiratory therapist. Spending the bulk of that
time working in neonatal ICU . Working with premature infants who
needed ventilatroy support and respiratory care until they were
healthy enough to go home. My smallest patient was 00ozs my largest
was 12lbs. I am also an active victim advocate for an organization
caled MOCSA, Metropolitan Organization to counter Sexual Assault. I
have worked with the agency since '82;I now do community outreach
and education for MOCSA and blog and write articles for the Man Up
section of MOCSA. Mentoring to young men and boys showing them by
esample that you can still be a man without being controlling or a
bully or abusive and disrespectful to women. I have always been
very proud of the work I have done at MOcSA.
By Faith I am Pagan married to a Wiccan woman. We are poly amourous
meaning we have an open marriage. My wife has a regular boy friend
a retired special forces soldier who I have met and consider a very
good man and friend,Poly is not anescuse to just go have sex with
other people it is a life style and should not be attempted by
people with possessive issues or a lack of confidence. I pride
myself on being transparent and will always be oen to any question
I am asked always replying with an honest answer.
I am a lover of artt, music. of all kinds, live theater and
socialjustice and history as it apply s to political trends.
If you find your self curious write me back and let's hae a
Terry, the Chocolate Satyr
The first things people usually notice about me
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That Iam very inarticulate and have a cutting wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books wuld be fiction sci-fi and fantasy
TV news junkie, scifi. cartoons, cop drmas
Food Italian,seafood, soul food.
Music all kinds with the exceptiion of gangsta rap.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The loe of my two sons and my wife
my work and advocacy for victims and social jusice
The oppurtunity to debate issues
Working to romote religous and life style freedom of practice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the ard core right is pushing us toward the great collaps that
every other great empire in history has taken.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usualy at home but I do get out to the clubs are going to see one
of my many friends burlesque when ever I can.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My sexual repartee has broadened greatly over the years. I like to
be bitten and spanked and do so in return. I also am some what of
You should message me if
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If you are intelligent, working on being self assured and letting
go of some of your heavier baggage. If you are open minded and
tolerant when it comes to faith and life style chlices. If you know
the differnce between sex and love, If you ae a compassionate and
passionate person. If you know that your libido does not define
your character or selfworth. Just as the size of your jeans does
not make or break your allure.
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