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terriblyinept

30 Raleigh, NC Cis Man

Cis Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–33
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:58am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Swahili (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I seek fairness, kindness, humor, and ideas from others, not always in that order.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love writing prose and poetry. Doodling, taking walks.

I recently moved to the Triangle, but in theory I still like spending my evenings with company.

I work a super-intense and fulfilling role that I'm not sure of which to describe as technical support, customer service, or listening to music ten hours a day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Near-merciless teasing, mothering, encouragement, casually making some of the darkest jokes I can think of, and making electronics work (or, at the very least, explaining why they don't). After nearly thirty years of it being my main physical activity, I'm an incredibly skilled pedestrian.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
What are you, some kind of weirdo? I have green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Narcissus and Goldmund, Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrell, Areas of My Expertise.

Movies: Harvey, Dead Man, Akira, The Fall.

Shows: I Claudius, Stella, Twin Peaks, Adventure Time, Downton Abbey.

Music: Joanna Newsom, Aesop Rock, Tool.

Food: Vegetables. Bread. Very little meat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Language
2. Tools.
3. Ideas, which are a kind of language-involved tool, I think.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything. Everything that crosses my path. Also, crows.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Want a friend? Want a date? Not a jerk? Are you a warrior-poet?