I am confident, knowledgeable, and adventurous.
My Self-Summary
I am a very kind and loyal guy. I am intelligent, very well
traveled and I have a happy disposition. I have strong liberal
political beliefs.
I enjoy travel, but as that is such a common comment it doesn't
shed any real light. So, let me qualify it. I enjoy going places
and doing things that are unique or change your perspective on
life, i.e. Spend a week getting to know the city of Tirana,
Albania; go through the Panama Canal by freighter; or Scuba Dive
with penguins. Wanna Come? I want to see the world that has not
been made safe, the one that is true to itself, not true to what I
imagine it to be.
Lately I’ve started swimming everyday. It is really invigorating
and gives me lots of energy. I like laughing at the silly things in
life and hanging out with my buddies. I've been known to drink a
beer as well, but I have a great time with people whether we're
drinking beer, coke or tea. I can hold up my end of a conversation
whether it is about EU expansion, Venezuelan oil production or the
air flight velocity of a coconut laden swallow.
I am finishing my masters in mechanical engineering (I earned my MS
in CS a while back) and I’m not sure what I’m going to do next in
life. I would like to work in Europe for a couple of years, but I
may have an opportunity here in Madison for a couple of years that
I can't miss.
I grew up in the quintessential multicultural home. My mother is
from Switzerland, and my father is from India. We traveled a lot
growing up and I've been to many parts of the world from 63* North
to 5* south and all lines of longitude. I've officially resided in
the US my whole life, however I've spent about 2 years abroad
total. My name is Prem.
I'm looking for a coequal partner who'll complement me and I
her.
To that end I would like to meet a very smart (smart girls are
sexy), funny, strong woman who's got a good head on her shoulders.
Someone who is motivated by the desire to achieve, not by the
desire to beat others. Someone who loves traveling to distant parts
of the world, but who is also just as interested in seeing
something new in her hometown or staring at clouds. Someone with
whom I can spend a good amount of time with, but not all my free
time. I'm happy most of the time; someone who'll cheer me up if I'm
bummed; kick me in the pants if I don't snap out of it soon enough
(I'm not looking for a mother, I've already got one and she's
cool). Someone who is cool without seeing me for a few months when
I decide to trek across Greenland, sail around the Caribbean, or
something equally silly. Someone who has a sunny disposition.
Someone who is not judgmental of others, I'm not interested in
sniping at other people with my future mate. Someone who thinks my
giant air cannon is awesome! Or better yet, will help me build an
even more ridiculous version! Of course these are all just points
in the right direction, I don't exactly know what is perfect.
I'm fun and hopefully so are you!\
What I’m doing with my life
I am acquiring knowledge. I am starting to figure out what my next
career will include. I am also continuing to work with my family
company.
I’m really good at
knowing obscure trivia, forming unusual collections, bribing border
officials, cooking, baking, identifying random parts and fixing
things, silversmithing, rope bridge building, asking questions,
building group momentum so we can finally choose a restaurant,
playing restaurant whammy, enjoying games by focusing on the social
interactions and not getting overly competitive about who
wins.
That is the flippant answer, the more useful answer is focusing on
the importance of good and effective communication in a
relationship; relationships of any and every kind.
The first things people usually notice about me
My brightly colored glasses - they are currently bright blue or
bright green. Though I change their color often.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: I generally like
- History: "Paris 1919", "Who Murdered Chaucer", "Justian's
Flea";
- Micro-history: "Salt", or "The Compass", or "Parallax";
- Popular science: ("Guns, Germs, & Steel", "The Song of the
Dodo", "Influenza"),
- Cosmology,
- Literature in translation: Naguib Mahfouz, Jorge Amado, Chinua
Achebe;
- Politics & news: "Foriegn Affairs", "The Economist", "Al
Jazeera", "France24", "DW", "Mainichi", "WSJ"; and
- Humorous fiction such as the writings of Douglas Adams.
Movies:
- by myself or with on or two friends, I like good movies that tell
a story well, "Guess who is coming to dinner", "The Grass is Always
Greener", "The Guns of Navarone", "Spies like Us", any Indiana
Jones;
- in a group, bad movies. Movies like Jamon Jamon - a tale of a
love hexagon that ends in a fight to the death with ham
hocks.
TV:
- Documentaries: any thing by David Attenbourgh or James
Burke;
- News programs: Washington Week, Meet the Press, The Daily
Show;
- Sitcoms: How I meet your Mother, Coupling, As Time Goes By,
Dharma & Greg;
- Dramas: Law and Order, House, Doctor Who, ; and - I almost forgot
these -
- Snarky shows like Anthony Bourdain's "No Reservations", Top Gear,
most things with James May, and "Lonely planet".
Music: I don't know enough and am looking for someone to teach me
about music. Though some things I do like are "They Might be
Giants", "Asleep at the Wheel", "Bond", "Bebe", "Tilly and the
Wall", "Julieta Venegas", and anything with brass in it.
Food:
I like anything novel or spicy if I haven't had it before I am
interested in trying it. I will often go into an "ethnic" grocery
and buy the ingredient I have the least knowledge about. Last time
it turned out to be duran flavored marmalade. This is somewhat
limited by a couple of health issues I have. I am always balancing
my desire for the novel with a desire to keep a well balanced diet
that provides the nutrients my body wants / needs without
ingredients I can't eat. Ingredients like wheat. Though if I had to
a single favorite dish it would be fruit salad with yogurt.
The six things I could never do without
This is a question that generally has the same basic answers. Mine
are about the same but a bit more literal.
-Shelter
-Food
-Water
-My Insulin
-Companionship
-Books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Consistency of Tolerant Solid Models (my research area), politics;
science, history, and how to get the cheapest tickets to somewhere
new and silly
On a typical Friday night I am
Early in the evening I am swimming. Later in the evening I could be
at the Hoofer Sailing club social, cooking dinner with the friends,
going to a show, reading, watching Washington Week, getting my dive
equipment ready for a weekend of diving, or building some backyard
contraption.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I like Cary Grant Movies.
You should message me if
The standard reasons
or
You have a great idea for something silly, and want help making it
sillier;
You constantly ask your self "what's the worst that could
happen";
You have always wanted to hitchhike through Albania;
You are looking for a travel companion to places other people ask
"why do you want to go there";
or
You want to share your passion about a topic. Because what ever the
topic, I am probably interested in learning more about it.