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53 Fairfax, VA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 4:06am
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am interested in someone who is intelligent, has a sense of humor, can laugh at himself (life's too short not to laugh!!), outgoing, athletic, fit, romantic, has a great smile, and nice eyes. Eyes say a great deal about a person. And a great smile just makes me smile more. Open communication is extremely important. I also appreciate guys who put their kids first (if you have kids, of course!).

I prefer warm weather to cold. Give me a beach, some nice white sand pretty blue water and palm trees.. my zen! I worked in Cancun for a couple of months, and traveled to Singapore, as well as Canada and around the country. I love to be silly, laugh and experience new things - probably like 99.9% of other women on this site. :-). But I will go out on a limb to say I am unique - you be the judge I guess. I like to explore wineries. Give me a cold Pinot Grigio any day!

I also enjoy working out, and got my black belt in tae kwan do in Apirl 2012! I am currently working on my 2nd degree black belt. I like to hike, bike, run, do a little yoga, take weight classes and sometimes Spin classes at my gym and sometimes just go for a long walk with my ipod (usually listening to the Kane Show - so I am laughing while I am walking!). Basically, if I'm outside (and it's warm enough!) I'm happy!

I have two children. My son is 23 and my daughter is 19. I moved to Fairfax in September, but I work in the Fredericksburg area.

I run a non-profit creativity educational organization in Virginia for preschool - college age levels. It is an international non-profit organization and is my "volunteer" job - But I love it!

I love sci fi (yup! I'm a nerd! :-) ) - got my B.S. in Astronomy from Penn State and M.Ed and PhD from UVA in education. I taught for 10 years - first year I taught HS physics. I am currently a professor at a univeristy- teaching graduate education courses. I have a theatre background... used to perform - but now too busy. I produced 10 shows for the local community theatre group when my daughter started to get involved in theatre. I love seeing shows, listening to music... love Jimmy Buffett! I even have a Parrot Head license plate. I've been a fan of Elton John since JHS and saw him and Billy Joel at the Face 2 Face concert a few years ago - great concert. Just saw the Eagles at the Verizon Center - they were awesome!! Also like lots of current music - very eclectic tastes..

BTW - If you are looking for someone who cooks - pass me by. I don't cook ...well... (I bake a mean cheesecake though). I actually apologized to my kids for not always having a home-cooked meal for them and my son said, "Mom, you've never been stereotypical. Why start now?" I hugged him!

I've been told that having a PhD can be intimidating.. not really sure why. I like to have as much fun as anyone... so, hopefully, those 3 letters don't scare you off..

I keep getting asked if I am really 5 ft.. YES!! Really!! :-)

If you are a smoker or even trying to quit - get back in touch with me when you've actually quit. Sorry, I'm allergic and I really don't like the smell.

I am not religious, but I do respect all beliefs. If that bothers you, then I'm not your gal.

Please have pictures on your profile. I will not respond if there are no pictures. If you tell me you've read my profile and have no pictures, it tells me you haven't really read my profile.

Scammers - please do not contact me. I will not respond.
What I’m doing with my life
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i am a professor at a university. I also volunteer for a number of educational organizations
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Just being me
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm told it's my smile..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - scifi; anything by Stephen King, Orson Scott Card
TV: Big Bang Theory, Dr. Who, Star Trek, Grimm, Bones, X-Files, Lost, Torchwood, Grey's Anatomy, Game of Thrones, Shameless, True Blood... and Jon Stewart - he's a genius!
Movies: anything scifi, comedies, action....
Shows: most; love musicals - loved Les Mis and Miss Saigon (my brother was in that show on Broadway and touring company)
Food: the spicier the better- if you're not sweating, you're not eating! :-). But I am also gluten-free... can still eat just about anywhere.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Warm weather!! Palm trees! Being outside, Running, Tae Kwan Do, the gym, my kids, a good Pinot Grigio, the BEACH!!!, laughing, just having fun!! Love to do anything that is fun, different
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wishing I did not have to work so much! But doing better regarding making sure I have free time for fun!
Why don't more guys smile in their pictures??
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What's typical?
You should message me if
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You live in the region, are NOT a smoker, have photos and you are smiling :-)
I won't respond if you do not have photos and do not live within driving distance.
I have not paid for the full service, so I cannot see who "likes" me.