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My self-summary
We all have a past, and I guess I'm no different! I've been married twice in one lifetime - so will, or will I not consider the third time as a possibility?

Self-reflection has taught me that personally I thrive best in a loving relationship. I like nothing better than peace and harmony at home, while maintaining a united front in conquering the "world out there".

Life can, of course, be lived alone. But I believe real joy is best shared with someone you love. Life is largely what we make of it.
What I’m doing with my life
A healthy mix of short-term and long-term plans. Creating my destiny. Helping my fellow-man/woman. Supporting others in helping them become the best they can be.
I’m really good at
Listening, chatting, communicating, debating, cycling (road & MTB), table-tennis, socialising, motivating others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look less formidable than I sound. I'm very warm and approachable. People are drawn to being in close proximity. I've also been told I am quite expressive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many books to mention - I have libraries! Movies-action to get me lost in the moment - preferably LOUD. Live rock concerts. I live for my music - I have played bass guitar in a professional capacity. Food - fuel for my body, with the occasional indulgence.
The six things I could never do without
Only 6.. okay:
1. God
2. Human contact
3. My kids
4. Intellectual stimulation
5. Intimacy
6. Living in full with freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to bring out and harness the best in people. My personal contribution to making the world a better place. And how far can I still take my mind and body.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking back at how many of my goals I've achieved for the week. Doing something (or nothing) to unwind. And planning a host of weekend activities involving my preteen son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm open-minded to a lot of weird ideas like past-lives, TM, astral travel and so on.
You should message me if
you find intelligence a turn-on.