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54 Cape Town, South Africa Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kids and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Fluently)
My self-summary
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We all have a past, and I guess I'm no different! Been married twice in one lifetime - will I or will I not consider a third time possibility?

Self-reflection has taught me that personally I thrive best in a loving relationship. I like nothing better than peace and harmony at home, while maintaining a united front in conquering the "world out there".

Of course, life can be lived alone. But real joy is best shared with a loved one. Life is what we make of it.
What I’m doing with my life
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A healthy mix of short-term and long-term plans. Fulfilling my destiny. Helping my fellow-man/woman. Supporting others in helping them become the best they can be.
I’m really good at
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Listening, chatting, communicating, debating, cycling (road & MTB), table-tennis, socialising, motivating others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look less formidable than I sound. I'm very approachable. People are drawn to being in close proximity. Expressive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too many books to mention - I have libraries! Movies-action to get me lost in the moment - preferably LOUD. Live rock concerts. I live for my music - I have played bass guitar in a professional capacity. Food - fuel for my body, with the occasional indulgence.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Only 6.. okay:
1. God
2. Human contact
3. My kids
4. Intellectual stimulation
5. Intimacy
6. Living in full with freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to bring out and harness the best in people. Making the world a better place moment-by-moment. How far can I take my mind and my body.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding, and recalibrating off a busy week. Preparing for the weekend. Spending quality time with my kids. Hitting the entertainment circuit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My hearing has been profoundly affected by LOUD bass. But I can still feel it. And make my audience grind their hips in appreciation. And of course I hear my family normally. Nothing better.
You should message me if
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you've put the past in its rightful place, and you have renewed your zest for living a rich life.