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testrunnnn

35 / F / bisexual / Available

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 1" (1.54m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
—
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English

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I am uh... warm, upfront, and other good stuff.

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My Self-Summary

I am an honest, open-minded person.. a little earnest at times maybe (but I hear that's supposed to be endearing...?). I'm pretty down-to-earth, a bit dorky, more than a little crass. I'm not big on drama. I am super lefty and do activist work whenever it feels like it makes sense and I have something practical to offer. I have a daughter who's awesome and hilarious, in my totally unbiased opinion. She lives half time with me and half with her dad. I think I have a really good life.

I'm interested in meeting some one who is open to non-monogamy but isn't in a primary relationship - pretty specific, no?(!) Yeah, I know. Feel free to ask me about it.

What I’m doing with my life

a little teaching, a little legal work, a whole bunch of mom-ing, some socializing partying, spending time with friends. Getting outside as much as possible before the weather turns.

I’m really good at

writing these profiles! duh!

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm pretty small, I bet that's noticeable.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

some books I love: The God of Small Things, The White Tiger, anything by James Baldwin. Kurt Vonnegut has a special place in my heart too.

movies: almost anything by the Coen brothers, The Wrestler, Milk, The Godfather Trilogy, Pretty in Pink, True Blood (I know, I know, it's a TV show), and I'm a sucker for a cheesy musical number (Hairspray? Dirty Dancing? oh yeah!)

music: I'm one of those annoying people who seem to be incapable of describing their musical tastes. Varied. Wide-ranging. I confess to a lot of Indie Rock tastes. Classical, Bluegrass, Reggaeton, 80s Nostalgia...

food: I love great food, from my solid meat and potato foundations to anything from Thai to Mexican

The six things I could never do without

my kid
my friends
great food
a sense of possibility

i guess that's only 4, so I'm easy to please too.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

really exciting and interesting things I'm sure you'd love to ask me all about.

On a typical Friday night I am

.. it depends.. generally catching up with friends over drinks, social but end-of-the-week-low-key.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have given some unbelievably bad speeches

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