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tetsunda

33 / F / Straight / Single

San Mateo, California

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:23pm
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Update: Back in the States after spending a few months abroad in Japan. Because why not. :]
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I like to think of myself as a mix of creativity and common sense. I love writing, I majored in studio art, and I play bass/guitar in a sorta cover band. On the other hand, I'm work as a manager at a local software developer. Still, I'm an artist at heart, who can appreciate a spirited debate or just good conversation with a friend about civil policies, politics, and the like.

I've lived in a few different states throughout my life, from Georgia to Hawaii (though not necessarily in that order). Recently, I visited Argentina on business, and I've been known to drop in on Japan for vacation.

In general, I love being creative and finding new outlets for creative expression. I love to laugh, but I'm not a fan of comedy. People can't always quite figure me out -- which neither can I usually, but I like to think it keeps things interesting.
What I’m doing with my life
During my day job, I'm usually face down in resource sheets and project planning -- perhaps the least fun parts of software development. After hours I'm an artist, a musician, and published author.

I currently spend much of my free time editing the sequel to my first novel, along with general book promotion.
I’m really good at
Ambition. If you're not aiming for something in life, what's the point? And if you're not happy, you should be aiming for something. I'll admit, people without ambition in life generally bore me. It's not that you have to have everything figured out -- I certainly don't. But at least refuse to stand still.
The first things people usually notice about me
If it's someone just striking up a conversation, I've been told I'm very polite. I come from the school of southern hospitality, so mostly I say 'please' and 'thank you' a lot, greet strangers with a nod and smile, and always hold the door open for the next person.

If they're stopping by my desk at work, it's probably that I'm kind of a nerd. I have a pretty awesome Batman TAS figure right next to a couple Spiderman & Venom busts and a nicely blossoming DBZ diorama.

Update: Two new Batman figures and a Wonder Woman mug added to my diorama. Yes, this was a necessary addendum.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Die Hard, The Dark Knight, the Indiana Jones trilogy (There was no fourth movie), Aliens, Terminator 1, 2, 3, (not 4), Gattaca, Being Human (BBC version), Breaking Bad, Sherlock Holmes, Mononoke Hime, anything by Miyazaki, Akira, anything by Otomo. Most anything by Pixar. I really dig movies with well-written dialog.

Music: I love rock/heavy metal/alternative/whatever if it has a good guitar line. Most of the bands I listen to are Japanese, though in the realm of non-Japanese music, I like bands like Mr. Big, Audioslave, and Coheed & Cambria.

Books: Does my sketchbook count? I carry one in my purse, so it's with me any time I'm struck with inspiration or boredom.
If I have to answer the question legitimately, I've been into Japanese Horror manga lately, like Tomie, MPD Psycho, and Uzumaki. I can while away many hours in a bookstore.

Food: Yakiniku, Yakitori, Ramen, Tonkatsu, Japanese food in general, also love Korean and Thai.
If you know a good southern BBQ place, let me know!
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order: art, music, chai tea, the interwebs, sandals, umbrellas.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My present, my future, and how to fill in everything in between.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with friends or just taking it easy after the work week. There's a 50/50 chance you'll find me at the local B&N.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
日本語でも大丈夫でしょう。
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You're smart, compassionate, funny, ambitious, like having philosophical debates about everything and nothing, and are not fettered by what's expected of you.

Also if you like using words like "fettered" in everyday conversation.