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55 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–61
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 25
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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I'm happy with where I am in life. There have been ups and downs but I'm comfortable in my own skin. I feel like I have great life experiences, good skills and an optimistic view on life.

I'm most attracted to women with an athletic body. I like a sophisticated yet sexy look. A woman with great legs wearing a sexy yet elegant dress has my attention! Whether it is jeans, a pant suit or a dress; a sexy style works for me. I've used the word "sexy" a lot and I'm interested in woman who isn't afraid if that.

Intelligence, emotional maturity and a zest for life are important to me. I'm attracted to a woman who knows who she is, has varried life experience and enjoyes her femininity. A sassy, earthy sense of humor is fantastic. A dominant or competitive personality is not appealing

I'm looking for a lover and I want to be clear that I don't want a conventional relationship. Going out to shows or for food, weekends away and enjoying time with you is what I want to do. A connection with you based on a shared sense of fun, respect and desire is what I'm looking for. Being beach bums together. Yeah that's the ticket!!

I don't want to live together. Nor do i want to do "blue jobs" around your house. :). I've done the commitent quid pro quo and that's not what I'm looking for. ;-P
What I’m doing with my life
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Lots and lots of things. Raising a great son, enjoying food and drink.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Seeing the other person's point of view
- Being fair
- Being calm when everyone else isn't.
- Seeing the absurd
- following my own mind
The first things people usually notice about me
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No idea. Laughs
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Musically I am all over the map. Rock, pop, jazz, R&B. So Beatles, Stones, kinks, Mile, Davis, Louis Armstrong, Ella Fitzgerald, Sarah Vaughn, the Clash, the Jam, Mayer Hawthorne, Mankana, Gabby Pahinui, Amy Winehouse, Dido, Papa Wemba

I'm more of a book guy than a movie guy but: the descendants, the Butler, year of living dangerously. Lots of netflix stuff.

Books: I go through phases. Over the years most of the classics- Tolstoy, Turganev, Gogol, Chekov, Flaubert, Balzac, de Maupassant, Colette, Hardy, Dickens, Jane Austen. Kerouac. Lots off history. Now I read brain candy and mix in some serious stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Time with my son
Time with myself
Being outdoors
Sex and intimacy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a good dad. How we move through our lives. Did I fill the ice cube tray?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing what I want to do. Sometimes out with friends, Sometimes a dinner with my son. Other times I'm happy to be home with a glass of wine, my own company and some music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nothing. Ask but I've already said a lot.
You should message me if
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You are witty, fun and have a zest for life. Are able to hang onto yourself when in a relationship. Love life and yourself. Are willing to respect my independence