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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-34
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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Straight, Sapiosexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Polish (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have six fingers on my left hand. Or fifteen centimeter tongue. Sure I do!
You never know.

People say different things, it's up to you if you believe them.

Life is a game, they say. I don't think so. Games tend to have goals set. In life you do what you desire.
There are things you will find really satisfying, but you'd never tell your mom.

Life is a spectacle, you know. Everybody has some roles, one they've chosen on their own or one that was chosen for them. I'm an actor and you're an actor
Want to play?

Late bloomer. Newcomer to Berlin. Polyamorist. Introvert. Boyfriend. Computer magician. Observer. Friend. Stranger.

So yeah, that's me. A little glimpse. Not less, not more.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What am I doing with my life? What is my life doing with me?
Maybe let's stick to the first one.
Pretend I'm in control.

Deciding what I want to do with the rest of my life. Making such decisions isn't one of my strong sides. Or rather sticking to them. I might even spend the rest of my life considering what to do with the rest of my life. And the worst thing is that it doesn't bother me that much.

Learning about what I haven't known. Self-improving. Trying new thing. Discovering myself.
Seizing the day.

Wasting remains of my youth. Tick - tick -tick - tick... can you hear it as well?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Discussions. Rhetoric.
I could make people agree with statements absurd even as "white is white and black is black". Wouldn't you agree? That was easy.

Understanding people. Reading them.
The more unusual the person, the better. Otherwise it feels like a book which you know how is going to end.

Staying calm. You won't make me lose control. Don't even try to.
It hurts to fail.

It is obvious, that the sentence was a nonsense. There are neither whites nor blacks in this world.
Everything is gray.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Primacy bias. Halo effect. Funny things.

You meet someone attractive. Doesn't like to party much. Prefers smaller groups of closer friends. Likes evenings with a book.
Such an individualist!

Maybe my eyes. When I look directly at theirs.
They sometimes ask me to stop. "Hey, don't look at me *that way*".

You meet someone unattractive. Doesn't like to party much. Prefers smaller groups of closer friends. Likes evenings with a book.
What a loser.

I don't know what way it is exactly. Maybe they think I can see them through just by looking at them.
Fortunately, I can't. That would be too easy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Palahniuk, , Donnie Darko [apart of shitty multiverse setting], Huxley, Orwell, 65daysofstatic, Requiem for a Dream [but as a movie about dreams, not drugs], Pink Floyd, Vonnegut, The Dreamers [by Bertolucci], Adolf plays the jazz, Her, CKOD, Interstellar, If These Trees Could Talk.

Random order.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"If I am what I have and if I lose what I have who then am I?". Fromm.

It's kind of ashaming to write about things I depend on, when all these wise people say it's a bad thing to do.

"And the things you used to own, now they own you.". Palahniuk.

Ok. Let's try. Intellectual stimulation, water, kidney, sleep, fresh air, sexuality, Inter...
Stupid limit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot time thinking. That's enough.

Why is sexuality considered as something sinful?
Who was that guy who said "Hi" to me?
Where have I left the keys?
Can computers think?

"About" doesn't matter. About anything. About nothing. About everything.
It's like sex.

What is the meaning of life?
What does it mean to live?
What does it mean to mean?
What is the meaning?

Maybe rather like masturbation, because you do it on your own. Discussion with open, intelligent person is way better.
Thinking is still hot though.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In my superhero suit saving the city from villains.
On the Moon profaning the flag.
Have you got it yet?

Gettin' down on Friday. Fun, fun, fun, fun. Which seat can I take?
Have you got it yet?

Surfing on the clouds. Touching the sky. Catching the rainbow. Licking the sun.
Have you got it yet?

Spreading graphomania.
Have you got it yet?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It tempts me to treat this section as a privacy-giving contest. Especially knowing that it is something easy for me to be open. Especially when I expect interesting reaction from the listener.

But well, there's no use.
And it's lame.
I might be afraid of being lame.

So let me just admit to the tendency of sharing things I barely know. It gives strange results, as interpersonal intimacy doesn't affect that as much as it should.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Before you write: the safeword is "jellyfish".

If you want to do some stuff with me. Like learning bouldering or watching noir films on weekend evenings.

Or if you want to explore the world outside of monogamy, but something deeper than one night stands.

If you want to show me something interesting in Berlin. I've been here since the beginning of October, so I guess I haven't seen much.

You should definitely message me if you like to play with your self concept and question who you are.
Spread your hemispheres and let me fuck your mind gently.