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tharkang

26 Kielce, Poland Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–34
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Polish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have six fingers on my left hand. Or fifteen centimeter tongue. Sure I do!
You never know.

People say different things, it's up to you if you believe them.

Life is a game, they say. I don't think so. Games tend to have goals set. In life you do what you desire.
There are things you will find really satisfying, but you'd never tell your mom.

Life is a spectacle, you know. Everybody plays a role, one they've chosen on their own or one that was chosen for them. I'm an actor and you're an actor.
And performing often needs certain skills.

Do you know how to bind someone properly? You use thick rope. Pull it around limb few times, so tension will spread over larger area. Use non-slipping knot. Make it tight, but not too tight. Repeat for each limb. Voilà! They won't go anywhere, unless you let them to.
Ask me how to make someone feel choked without cutting the air. Or how do you use wax without inflicting damage.

So yeah, that's me. A little glimpse. Not less, not more.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What am I doing with my life? What is my life doing with me?
Maybe let's stick to the first one.
Pretend I'm in control.

Deciding what I want to do with the rest of my life. Making such decisions isn't one of my strong sides. Or rather sticking to them. I might even spend the rest of my life considering what to do with the rest of my life. And the worst thing is that it doesn't bother me that much.

Learning about what I haven't known. Self-improving. Trying new thing. Discovering myself.
Seizing the day.

Wasting remains of my youth. Tick - tick -tick - tick... can you hear it as well?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Discussions. Rhetoric.
I could make people agree with statements absurd even as "white is white and black is black". Wouldn't you agree? That was easy.

Understanding people. Reading them.
The more unusual the person, the better. Otherwise it feels like a book which you know how is going to end.

Staying calm. You won't make me lose control. Don't even try to.
It hurts to fail.

It is obvious, that the sentence was a nonsense. There are neither whites nor blacks in this world.
Everything is gray.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Primacy bias. Halo effect. Funny things.

You meet someone attractive. Doesn't like to party much. Prefers smaller groups of closer friends. Likes evenings with a book.
Such an individualist!

Maybe my eyes. When I look directly at theirs.
They sometimes ask me to stop. "Hey, don't look at me *that way*".

You meet someone unattractive. Doesn't like to party much. Prefers smaller groups of closer friends. Likes evenings with a book.
What a loser.

I don't know what way it is exactly. Maybe they think I can see them through just by looking at them.
Fortunately, I can't. That would be too easy.

Anyway, the best two things about me are hard to notice. Hidden.
One in my skull. The other somewhere else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read "Harry Potter" once. I did like it. All seven parts.
Would I like it now? I don't know.
Tastes do change.

Recently I've started reading Palahniuk. I like it. Much.
There was a time I would have called Ayn Rand my favorite author. Now, seeing flaws in her philosophy, I wouldn't. Her books are still kind of interesting.

Huxley. This guy was a visionary. And Orwell. His "Nineteen eighty-four" was much more scary than the "Brave new world". Maybe because the second dystopia is similar enough to current world I've got used to.

Donnie Darko. Great movie. Especially ignoring the main parallel universes theme. And Requiem for a dream. But not as a movie about drugs.

And music. Rather something non-repetitive.
Post-rock. Sunlight Ascending, If These Trees Could Talk, Deep in Thought, Radio for daydreamers, Daturah.
And other genres. Pink Floyd, Syd Barrett, Led Zeppelin, Pustki.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"If I am what I have and if I lose what I have who then am I?". Fromm.

It's kind of ashaming to write about things I depend on, when all these wise people say it's a bad thing to do.

"And the things you used to own, now they own you.". Palahniuk.

Ok. Let's try. Intellectual stimulation, water, kidney, sleep, fresh air, sexuality, Inter...
damn.
Stupid limit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot time thinking. That's enough.

Why is sexuality considered as something sinful?
Who was that guy who said "Hi" to me?
Where have I left the keys?
Can computers think?

"About" doesn't matter. About anything. About nothing. About everything.
It's like sex.

What is the meaning of life?
What does it mean to live?
What does it mean to mean?
What is the meaning?
Existential, even nihilist shit, when not even possession of large penis can make you feel better.

Maybe rather like masturbation, because you do it on your own. Discussion with open, intelligent person is way better.
Thinking is still hot though.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In my superhero suit saving the city from villains.
On the Moon profaning the flag.
Have you got it yet?

Gettin' down on Friday. Fun, fun, fun, fun. Which seat can I take?
Have you got it yet?

Surfing on the clouds. Touching the sky. Catching the rainbow. Licking the sun.
Have you got it yet?

Spreading graphomania.
Have you got it yet?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There are various reasons why we consider something too private to share. It might be something we would rather not make part of first impression or even something we are ashamed of. Maybe we don't feel like revealing everything, so we can come as mysterious and ignite curiosity. We might also simply want to avoid offending other people.

I still sometimes run up the down escalator.

Some of people seem to have astonishingly low being-offended limit. And when speaking publicly you have to take lowest common denominator.
Anything I'd be willing to admit here will be much tamer than things I might tell you when you ask.

Maybe vertical-stripes-blouses fetish. Kind of weird. Just a piece of clothing. No deep neckline, and still makes me see a woman as much more attractive.
Maybe not as attractive as without one, but definitely more than in other kinds of blouses.
I have other great fetishes. But let's keep'em private.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Before you write: the safeword is "jellyfish".

You might want to message me if you're not looking for a traditional, monogamous relationship. Because neither do I.
Polyamorous ones are fine. So are conversation & activity partners, friends, etc.

You should definitely message me if you like to play with your self concept and question who you are.
Spread your hemispheres and let me fuck your mind gently.