Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am many things. I have a wide variety of interests, an
interesting mix of friendships and a hard time making decisions
because there is always something good about each option. I have a
really solid community of people who love me and people who I love.
I want people to drink wine with in the forest and to stay up late
wandering the streets and daydreaming about the future. I like
adventures, spontaneity, security and I like people who follow
through with their word. I am a very flexible person and a pretty
serious introvert. I can hold my own in a group though I prefer
intimate environments and meaningful conversations.
Also, I could care less that you think i'm "really beautiful"
Everyone is beautiful. My value doesn't come from my fragile human
I'm wondering if monogamy isn't so awesome these days. I'm Poly and
currently have two amazing partners. I definitely believe that it's
the right fit for who I am and what I need from a relationship. I'm
just not much of a believer in living ones life within the
constraints of what society dictates as normal. All I expect from
any one else is an open mind, a willingness to listen, learn, grow
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it. Western society demands entirely too much from it's
citizens. If I'm not working i'm sleeping in, wandering around
outside (alone or with a friend), crafting, daydreaming, petting my
cat/dog, planning my utopia, and now that the sun is shining maybe
coaxing the dirt to give me vegetables.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and watching.
I'm good at crafts and making things by hand.
Being up real high
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea. I would have to conduct a survey, random selection,
I'm kinda quiet? (only kind of though) I have blonde hair?
You can tell me if we ever meet in person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't own a TV and don't really care about it.
Food: I love ice-cream, delicious food, fresh fruit, and recently
(after 8 years of vegetarianism), BACON.
Movies: Also don't really care that much about them but have
watched many that have entertained and that i've thoroughly
enjoyed. I'm bad at remembering their names. Generally I like
documentaries, terrible action movies and indie films.
Music: I used to be one of those people who likes "everything
except rap and country" well I like both those genres now too. I
guess the only thing I don't like is top 40 and horribly misogynist
music. I mostly listen to indie pop/folk/rock and quiet sad music.
And I LOVE THE RADIO. CBC radio 2 is the go to station these
I think my favourite book is The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton
Juster. I really like kids books. I loved The God of Small Things
by Arundhati Roy, Kurt Vonnegut, The Wizard of Oz, Non fiction
books and more!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My Family. They rock my socks and have helped me become a self
confessed awesome person. I don't think anyone could love me the
way they do.
- Some very wonderful friends
- My two incredible life partners
- Sunshine and the outside
- Long walks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- How fucked up the world is and how to change it
- craft projects
- Adventures I could be having
- How beautiful the whole world can be
- Patriarchy, Feminism, Capitalism, Society
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There are many options: Dancing, working, a friends house, house
party, live music show, in bed, walking around. The days of the
week have very very little meaning since I work shift work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not very good at this poly thing yet, but i'm learning and
growing in the process
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your interested in polyamory, open minded, adventurous, shy, sweet,
genuine and serious about being a good human being and having a
If you think you could teach me something new!
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