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34 River Grove, IL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:26am
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Swahili (Poorly), Ancient Greek (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
One of the greatest tragedies of living would be to love and lose and never love again. OKstupid I am hold onto hope that love is right around the corner.

I've bleed and failed more times than I would care to admit.

It is in these spaces that I am suppose to fill with admirable qualities about myself. I would rather speak the hard truth. Life is hard; if it is easy for you, well I don't think I would want to date you.

Now, I am a smiley, content, generous, happy, fun gent. I like working out and reading in my hammock. I volunteer for all kinds of crazy humanitarian and mentoring programs. I kind of have a gift in public speaking.

My life experience has brought me down so many roads and caused me to have to wear many hats.

My word this year is courage. Oh yeah, I like good and unique words. Each year I claim a word as something important to me. So this year, "courage."

I run toward fires.

I'm typically the organizer among my friendship circles; which can be a daunting task.

I like a good beer and wine, spending a day writing or doing something creative.

After years of studying people, I have learned that we are all asking ourselves the same questions:

Am I seen?
Am I heard?
Does what I say matter?

We tend to gravitate to the persons that would answer all these questions with a YES!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working hard toward minimalism and the happiness that follows.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making you dinner. ;)
Standing in weddings: i've been the best man for 3 different guys named Josh. (Seriously)
Holding the door.
Looking far younger than my age
Speaking in front of any size group
Being loyal...
Checking facebook
Making a fire... I like fire.
Running a mile... I love running except for when i'm doing it.
Fixing whats broke
Got finger painting skillz
Picnic-ing like a boss
Wood Art
Growing my beard
Being a minimalist
Seeing the good in others
Growing + Cutting hair
Making a cocktail
Asking questions
Talking wine
Full-contact origami
Giving & recieving advice
Drinking coffee & tea
Playing well with others
I'm really good at throwing a party
Sitting in random places
Talking about my feelings
Making lists of things i'm good at.
I might be good at more things, but you'll never know if you don't take a risk.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am tall.
I smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Forest Gump
P.S. I Love You
Catch Me If You Can
Just Friends
Definitely Maybe
Cool Runnings
Silver Lining Playbook
The Proposal
Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind
The Secret Life of Walter Mitty
Old School
Italian Job
Harry Potter

Tv: Shameless, Homeland, Revolution, anything JJ Abrams, Weeds, Walking Dead, House of Lies, & Big Bang Theory

Music: yes. Top 40, Dance, Country, Dubstep, Folk, Accoustic, Folktronica, Rock, Alternative, Hip-Hop, Rap, Etc.

Favorite bands/Artists: Sleeping at Last, Damien Rice, Nelly, Jon Foreman, Josh Garrels, Andy Mineo, Ben Howard, Mat Kearney, OneRepublic, Yellowcard, Avicii, David Guetta, Avril Lavigne, Pitbull, Timbaland, patrick stump, Jason Aldean, Flordia Georgia Line, Frank Sinatra, Skrillex... The list continues.

The soundtrack to my life is "Sleeping At Last" if you haven't heard it, educate yourself, you won't regret it. The singer was one of my closest friends in high school.

Rob Bell
Bob Goff
Peter Rollins
C.S. Lewis
Donald Miller
Shanti Feldham
Mark Twain
Viktor Frankl
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can go 3 weeks without food, 3 days without water, and 3 seconds without love.

Good stuff starts with F (Bahaha!!!)
1. Fire
2. Family
3. Friends
4. Food
5. Fresh water
6. Fitness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What brought people to the place they are at...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully on a plane somewhere exciting for the weekend
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If these things matter to you!

Being a mover/ doer
Being challenged & challenging others