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31 M Grand Rapids, MI

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:25pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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What can I say about myself here... I'm in my final year of my Bachelors Degree (Web Design and Development). I work full time, and go to school full time. I am married, and my wife and I are poly (we see other people, ethically).

I am looking for someone that can handle the above (that whole married and poly thing) and that connects with me, for more than just one night. Tall order, eh?

I would love to hear from you, and don't worry... I'll always message back, even if just to say I'm not interested.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working my way through college... I'm so ready to start my 'adult job'... I'm a touch sick of retail
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Web Design (HTML/CSS/jQuery)
making people smile/laugh
video games
The first things people usually notice about me
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my height (or lack thereof)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: anything by David Gemmel, Gates of Fire, the Hunger Games trilogy, The Wolf Gift (or anything by Anne Rice really), vast majority of Dean Koontz novels (especially the Alex Snow series)

TV: The Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, NCIS, Bones, River Mosters (yeah strange mix, but it's cool seeing some of the fish that dude catches)

Movies: i'll watch anything, but a few favorites: The Lost Boys, Boondock Saints 1 & 2, Lethal Weapon(s), Underworld(s), The Expendables, Halloween (Rob Zombies versions rule), Serenity, most of the superhero movies, Devils Rejects (House of 1000 Corpses is alright, but it's not exactly a favorite), Various comedy movies (none of which are coming to mind at the moment)

Food: I love to eat!

Music... i will listen to almost anything. Going to drop a few band names just to give you an idea: Killswitch Engage, Times of Grace, Avenged Sevenfold, Bullet for my Valentine, Metallica, All that Remains, Nightwish, Within Temptation, Pantera, Ozzy Osbourne, Lynyrd Skynyrd, .38 Special, Poison, Motley Crue, Skid Row, Devildriver, Chimera, Trivium, Otep, Bruno Mars, Disturbed, Sevendust, Alter Bridge, Creed, Van Halen(Hagar), Whitesnake... etc the list goes on and on and on and on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
well, seems the obvious is so obvious, i'm going to go with stuff that I don't WANT to go without.

A good story (whether it be movie, game, book)
Music that speaks to me
People I care about
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people can't be bothered to respond, even if to say no thanks
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights I tend to be at work, at least until around 9:30... after that... probably watching a movie or unwinding from a long day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I played WoW for like 7 years
You should message me if
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If you got this far, you might as well just send the message. I'll respond... I promise!