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thayward65

44 / M / straight / Single

Alameda, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Overweight
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Fun, Adventurous, and Outgoing.

My Self-Summary

Male, 44 Years Old
I am looking for a female friend that I can do things with/just hang out. I'm just recently Separated and waiting on my divorce papers. My ex-wife is in UT and I'm CA. I am interested in ages are 25-50 Race/Height not important. Must weigh less than 200lbs.

I just recently shaved my head women please place your coments if you think I look better with hair or without. Thank you

What I’m doing with my life

I have just recently moved back in San Francisco Bay Area on the Oakland side. I live in Alameda. I am looking for work as Security/Patrol Person. I am back on the "Meat Market" after 7 years. I am getting myself back together again. I am looking forward to meeting women and actually going out and mingle. I am hoping making new friends here. I am just me and everything will fall in place. I take life as it comes for me. I am always respectable and caring. I don’t have kids of my own. My ex wife has 3 boys and I am really am close to the youngest. I email him and at times talk with him on the phone. I have no other ties. I won’t go back to Utah. California is where I am going to stay.

I’m really good at

Being myself, honest, open, loving, caring, having fun, taking responsibility, computers, outgoing, making people smile and laugh, and listening. kissing and whatever comes with being behind closed doors. (wink wink) I believe if you do have sex it has to be mutual and you have to have feelings for the person to please each other.

The first things people usually notice about me

My first bald head, and my nose it is large and my personality to go with it. I used to have a Sandy Blond Hair. I am very outgoing and been told fun to be with. I talk a lot and my former employers nicknamed me "RADIO" cause I never shut up. My nephews will tell you that too.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Anything to improve myself and Financial Situations

Movies: Pay It Forward, Action adventure, Horror Comedy, Comedy, True Stories, Sports Film, Drama, Chick Flix, Romantic Comedy, Thriller, Documentary and many more. Braveheart, Patriot, National Lampoons Christmas Vacation and Animal House.
Music: O Jays, ELO, LL Cool J, Ice Cube, Oldies, Big Band era, 50's through 90's, Jazz, Blues, Cat Stevens, Bob Seagar, Iron Maiden, Ozzy, Kinstons Trio, Folk music, many many more.
Food: Hoagies, Pizza, Lasagna, Nachos, Philippino food, Grits, Porks, Soul Food, Mexican Food, Chinese Food, Japanese Food, Sushi, Tai Food, Indian Food, Steaks, and Meat. I will try any food once or more.

The six things I could never do without

Jesus
Family
Friends
Laughter
Fun
people

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Having a Woman Friend with benefits
women I can go out with hang with enjoy each other company. I am not looking for marriage. I am looking for life friendship. I have been married twice. Now it is time for dating. I am not a bad person. I would like to share fun on hobbies I enjoy doing. Hiking, Camping, bay cruises, ocean cruises, traveling, out for drives, walking on the beach, sunrise and sunsets, being romantic.

On a typical Friday night I am

I am at home
At my pub Forbidden Island on Lincoln Alameda
being with my friends

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Favorite thing are kissing and the other thing is personal it is whomever I get with.

You should message me if

If you want to have fun
Want to Laugh
Want to know me better
Want to meet up in person
Want to just chat
Need to vent
make a new friend