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21 Atlanta, GA Genderfluid, Non-binary

Genderfluid, Non-binary

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 8
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a lover and a fighter. I'm a science fanatic, and madly in love with a woman named Nicollette. I'm extremely passionate about intersectionality oriented feminism, but also extremely passionate about most things. I'm a sex worker. I play ukulele badly and loudly. I decide really, really quickly whether or not I like a person, so put a little more thought into a message other than "hi." Some say I'm extremely set in my ways, but the slightest bit of proof to the contrary could change my entire way of thinking. Everything is fluid and I just want to enjoy life while I can. I'll be leaving Atlanta next year, so I'm not looking for any serious commitments or anything of that nature. I also have a boyfriend and am dating a couple of people, so monogamy isn't an option for me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Hustlin'. Trying to be a good person, but really I'm just an idiot in a box trying to help where I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Quickly picking up knowledge. Reading people. Deciding whether or not I want something or like someone extremely quickly. I'm learning Brazilian Portuguese right now. Yes, the "Brazilian" aspect makes a difference. If you're rude, I'll probably curse you out in Brazilian Portuguese. If you're interesting, I might teach you how.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hopefully they're questioning my gender and sexuality. My dream aesthetic is "????????"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A Million Little Pieces, Tao of Pooh, White Oleander, Blackbird: The Life and Times of Paul McCartney, Madness, The Art of Happiness, Running With Scissors, Go Ask Alice, anything by Douglas Adams, On Man and the Universe, Tao Te Ching, How To Practice, The Series of Unfortunate Events series, The Vampire Chronicles series, The Lucifer Effect, Death by Black Hole and other Cosmic Quandaries, anything by Neil deGrasse Tyson, the Johnny the Homicidal Maniac series, everything Spiderman, and I love poetry, too. Some of my favorite poets are Maya Angelou, Neil Hilborn, Andrea Gibson/Andrew Gibby, Paul McCartney, B. Lynne Zika, and these are only the authors and works that come to mind at the moment. I'll add later, as they come to me.

Pulp Fiction, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Fight Club, Edward Scissorhands, Nightmare Before Christmas, Little Miss Sunshine, Hard Candy, SLC Punk!, Repo! the Genetic Opera, Lilies of the Field, Killer Klowns From Outer Space, Attack of the Killer Tomatoes, Hitchhiker's Guide To the Galaxy, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Pink Floyd The Wall, Office Space, Hot Fuzz, Shaun of the Dead, The Big Lebowski, the Friday the 13th, From Dusk Til Dawn, The Vampire Chronicles, A Scanner Darkly, Kill Bill and Boondock Saints series, among many. Also anything with Danny Trejo
John Waters is my favorite director and his work is very important to me.

Six Feet Under, The Sopranos, Futurama, Bob's Burgers, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Supernatural, Fringe, Orange is the New Black, Cosmos, The Boondocks, Adventure Time, Wilfred, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Brickleberry, Samurai Champloo, Attack on Titan, Blue Exorcist, and I'm sure there are others. I don't watch much TV anymore, even though I Netflix binge a lot.

So much, just ask. I'll list some of my main favorites, though.
Classic Rock: Janis Joplin, Paul McCartney, Jimi Hendrix, The Rolling Stones, The Beatles
Rap: Nas, Wu Tang Clan, Eminem, Angel Haze, Cakes Da Killa, RoxXxan, Mykki Blanco, Sasha Go Hard definitely goes hard, Amplify Dot, JLeslieMonique/Jovan, Wale, Waka Flocka
Punk: Johnny Hobo and the Freight Trains, The Clash, The Misfits
Classical: Beethoven, Tchaikovsky
Opera: Pavarotti
Reggae/Ska: Sublime, Burning Spear
Other: K.Flay, Terravita, Parov Stelar


A big Rob Zombie fan
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My ukulele, my best friend, my favorite tree, my glasses, books, and bodily autonomy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much of what I believe is what I was conditioned to believe and how much of it defines me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unaware that it's Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I never hesitate to call people out on their bigotry, even in microaggressive forms. It's important to me to only surround myself with good people. Sure, everyone has good in them. If I was to dig through their layers of bullshit in order to find the good, I'd just get up covered in shit. If I think you're a bad person, I'll tell you.
You should message me if
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You want a meaningful acquaintance, friendship, or relationship, to enjoy the beauty of while it lasts. If you're interested in hiring me for sex work, please specify so. I'm also extremely open to sugar daddies.