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21 Albuquerque, NM Genderfluid, Non-binary

Genderfluid, Non-binary

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20-30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:01am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a lover and a fighter. I play ukulele badly and loudly. I'm aggressively into human decency. Talk to me about systemic oppression and you're practically guaranteed a response. I'm a poly person with a girlfriend.

I recently moved to Albuquerque from Atlanta and have discovered that most of the people I've met so far are racist and homophobic, so I'm looking to expand my horizons.
What I’m doing with my life
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Hustlin'. Trying to be a good person. Making art.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being perceived as a manic pixie dream girl and making burritos
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm cute and vulgar
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A Million Little Pieces, Tao of Pooh, White Oleander, Blackbird: The Life and Times of Paul McCartney, Madness, Running With Scissors, The Art of Asking, Go Ask Alice, anything by Douglas Adams, The Series of Unfortunate Events series, Harry Potter, The Vampire Chronicles series, The Lucifer Effect, Death by Black Hole and other Cosmic Quandaries, anything by Neil deGrasse Tyson, the Johnny the Homicidal Maniac series, everything Spiderman, Deadpool, Marvel in general, although I love Harley Quinn's series, Trigger Warning, American Gods, No Straight Lines, and I love poetry, too. I read a lot. Neil Gaiman is my favorite author.

Pulp Fiction, The Devil's Rejects, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Fight Club, Edward Scissorhands, Nightmare Before Christmas, Little Miss Sunshine, Hard Candy, SLC Punk!, Repo! the Genetic Opera, Lilies of the Field, Killer Klowns From Outer Space, Attack of the Killer Tomatoes, Hitchhiker's Guide To the Galaxy, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Pink Floyd The Wall, Office Space, Hot Fuzz, Shaun of the Dead, The Big Lebowski, the Friday the 13th, From Dusk Til Dawn, The Vampire Chronicles, House of 1000 corpses, A Scanner Darkly, Kill Bill and Boondock Saints series, among many. Also anything with Danny Trejo
John Waters is my favorite director and his work is very important to me.

Steven Universe, Six Feet Under, BoJack Horseman, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Wentworth, Orange is the New Black, The Sopranos, Futurama, Bob's Burgers, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Supernatural, Fringe, Cosmos, The Boondocks, Adventure Time, Wilfred, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Brickleberry, Samurai Champloo, Attack on Titan, Blue Exorcist, and I'm sure there are others. I don't actually have a TV, I just Netflix binge a lot.

I used to list a lot of stuff here but I realized that musical elitism is boring. I like some of everything. If Johnny Cash can do an A+ cover of NIN, anything is possible. Amanda Palmer is very important to me, though, and if you hate rap, I probably won't like you.

I'm a vegetarian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My ukulele, my best friend, my glasses, books, fancy notebooks, and bodily autonomy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why guys do what they do. Like sure, you might be a nice guy, but that other nice guy plays an instrument, has a soft tummy, gives me brownies, and is super adorable when he's drunk. Flattery isn't the same as having things to offer. Why don't they understand that niceness is the bare minimum? Why not tell me what they have to offer aside from basic decency instead of being rudely surprised when I have self esteem and don't care for their flattery? W h y
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unaware that it's Friday. I'm a fan of getting cross faded with friends and listening to albums and making art and music, though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When people send me unsolicited sexually explicit messages about what they'd like to do to me, I return the favor, but it's never as sexy as they thought it'd be, usually something to the effect of "forward that message to your mother" or "deposit (x)k in my bank account and never talk to me again."
You should message me if
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You don't think people deserve rewards for being decent, because your bar is set higher that.