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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:50pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
There's most likely a right way to fill out an on-line dating profile. A dash of light humor, healthy amounts of charm and confidence, maybe a wry and knowing little smile in that profile pic. That profile also wouldn't belong to me: I'm not that cool. It doesn't make you cool, by the way, admitting that you're not cool. It's a wonderful thing to know who you are, but cool is fucking cool, and I'm just not. Picture a big clumsy dog who just found the perfect stick and can't hold his excitement any longer. This world is my stick, damn it, and Freud can kiss my ass.

I have lots of hobbies and enjoy my downtime, too. But I think what matters most is the interpersonal stuff: how we treat others, what we care about and who we make time for.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lately, I've had to move from city to city for work. I wasn't always sure where it would lead, but I'm pretty happy to be where I am right now. I'm more happy knowing that I don't have to pack it up and move again any time soon.

I work as a clinical psychologist with individuals who have serious mental illnesses. I usually have to stress when I meet someone new that I am not analyzing or judging them. I just really thought that human behavior was something interesting to study.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I work with a individuals who are pretty much at their lowest point or whose grasp on reality is fleeting, and I'm really good at making that seem like something that is okay for them in the present moment.

I like to spend my time trying out new stuff in the kitchen or working on projects.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably the lack of any hair upstairs these days, but also that I often look unhappy. It also takes folks a while to realize that I'm joking with them, even though that's 90percent of what I'm doing in social situations. Truth is best administered in small doses, and usually with a drink.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Learning to cook must be so much easier when you know lots of people whom you can feed. I can make a few dishes, though I really don't know if anyone else would like them. If I could, I would subsist by alternating between Chicken Parm and Tabbouleh. And probably pop-tarts.

Books: I just got back most of my books I had to leave behind when I was moving around. What I have is usually a bit of the bizarre or sublime. Think Vonnegut or Palahniuk, and I reread Calvin and Hobbes often.

Movies: Wes Anderson, Q Tarantino, Coen Brothers, and pretty much anything with Bill Murray.

TV shows that need to be brought back: Dirty Jobs, MST3K.

Music: I love pretty much any live music, but I'd prefer an outdoor festival to a cramped club. Rock music peaked in the late 80s and early 90s. I like the folksy stuff and indie rock that is out now, but sometimes I need some Faith No More or Blind Melon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet connectivity
A bicycle
mp3 player/library
A good local pizzeria
Late nights/sleeping in
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The less meaningful or relevant a topic, the more I tend to think about it. I've given great detail to how I would survive zombie apocalypses, spend lottery windfalls, or run governments.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now it's probably Netflix or out taking a walk. I'm always up for a late night beer or food run, provided it's paired with the a good conversation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is, by definition, more private that the thing I'm willing to share on the internet.
You should message me if
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You should message me because you want to. It's the 21st century, after all.

I mostly look for chemistry when I meet someone new. Yeah, it's hard to define, but I think it requires putting yourself out there for people to see. If their is a sense of connection, I see where it goes.