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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 27
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So if you like me, send me a message because i dont have A list.

Im a total goof ball that wants everyone to laugh and be happy. I tell stupid jokes and am very sarcastic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I am going to school full time and working full time. Im basically getting ready to try to get through the police academy and see what happpens after that. May or may not go for a PD job but it gives me something to work towards. Could be fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people and communicating if I am not interested in the person. The second a pretty girl comes to talk to me that I am at ALL interested in, I turn into a blubbering idiot. :) you think im kidding.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Generally my gingerness, my build and then my dimples. Im a big dude and I am hard to miss. I have wide shoulders and I will never wear skinny jeans. Im sorry ladies, Im not a hipster, never will be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hey, this looks like an awesome conversation topic. Feel free to ask me. I will say I like game of thrones and star wars...... not limited to those two but ask away... I love fantasy and sci-fi. I also love history and science. Go figure.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books to enjoy, stuff to learn, friends to share life with, adventure, air and water :) oh yeah and sleep... I love sleep when I can get it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot of different things. My mind is always puzzling through something. However, most recently I am on a self improvement kick.... i finally quit smoking!!!!! yay!!!!!! I also am quasi vegetarian now. I still like a steak every once in a while but I do like eating healthy. Gots to lose the gut and be a sexeh ginger not a "deaaaaad sexeh" fat bastard. If you did not get the reference then well ask me about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working but somehow still being awesome!!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Im a jerk cause i stand outside all night at work and if you complain about being cold, TO ME!!!!! because you wore some hideous outfit, im going to take forever checking your id..... cause yes its cold... im well aware cause yeah im here in it.... and that outfit is dumb.... I have to be out here and judge people because it is my job. You do not have to dress like an idiot and treat me like a second class citizen. :) (ok rant over now that I am no longer a bouncer)

And this is why I am not a bouncer any more. Stupid people make me a sad panda...... there are a lot of stupid people but all is well now. I upgraded my life and will continue to do so.

Im not looking for anything serious fyi..... I do not think it is fair to lead people on so I will just say, I work crazy hours with wierd bouts of overtime. I also go to school and have a lot of things going on. I would love to find a gamer girl who is cool with my weird (graveyard) schedule and who does not mind my nerdiness or sarcasm. If you want 100% of my attention 100% of the time then it is not going to work. If you want to have a strictly physical relationship meh you might want to look elsewhere.... Im only so so in bed :) if you want adventures, laughs and cuddling then I am your man. Did I mention I can cook too?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are intelligent and can talk about things other than fashion or the latest music craze. I dont care if you CAN talk about that just dont want that to be the only thing :)
Also, if you want to meet a sweet guy who is not at all full of himself (ok maybe a little bit but its self confidence not cockiness) and you want to have a good time.

Oh and if you know what hardy weinberg is :)