Thanks to OkCupid .. yes, it worked! .. my life is blissfully filled with love. I am no longer seeking romantic relationships of any sort.
I'm married and have a teen-aged daughter. We're polyamorous, with no plans to separate or divorce, and anyone becoming more than a casual playmate will need to interact with my family and lovers.
“It is like a lighted torch whose flame can be distributed to ever so many other torches which people may bring along; and therewith they will cook food and dispel darkness, while the original torch itself remains burning ever the same. It is even so with the bliss of the Way.”
Now for the personal stuff:
I'm healthy (except for some arthritis in my knees—I won't be running the marathon this week), intelligent, very widely read, and eloquent. I have a professional career that brings in a comfortable salary (and sometimes requires extensive travel). I'm a poet and author, a public speaker, a former actor. I'm loving, affectionate, sensual, and kind.