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theEtrain

41 M Olympia, WA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 31–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Pacific Islander, White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've come to realize that the women that I'm into aren't all that into me and the ones that are into me I'm really not that into (Am I right? Can I get an amen up in here?) So as I head boldly into my forties I'm trying to pursue activities that will make me way more awesome than can be imagined by the human mind without the worry of trying to woo a female with my impressive mating dance (It's quite masterful, you would be immediately seduced). Doing some volunteer work, guitar lessons, salsa dancing, weird club dancing, trail running, reading more, eating healthier, watching too many movies..... yada, yada, yada. If you would like to hop on this train, help me out with some healthy recipes, or would just like someone to go to a concert or grab a coffee with, let me know!

Here is a testimonial from DancingQueenie -
"I met the Etrain a few years ago and was immediately impressed with his friendly, down to earth personality. Every time we get together seems to be a comedy of errors (a drive to the wineries which was supposed to be 1 hour turns into 3, New Year's plan cancelled at the last minute) and instead of stressing out this guy is laughing at the whole experience and is excited for whatever comes next. I love his ability to be so spontaneous and go with the flow! And how can you not appreciate a guy whose not afraid to get on the dance floor?! Needless to say, a night out with him is never boring. What more could you ask for?"

I'm sure she meant to add "and he's totally sexy". Maybe she assumed my pics would make that clear.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a great job as a web developer at a local college. I think the above pretty much sums up the rest.

Basically taking each day as a new adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think I can moonwalk fairly well. I'm pretty decent at ping pong also. I'm really good at making you laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
"A Visit from the Goon Squad", great book. Covers a 40 year period of the lives of two people through their own voice as well as the people around them.

Movies: I like almost all kinds of movies... love Tarantino and the Cohen brothers films. My favorite movie is probably "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"..(I know it's a chick flick, but I thought it was very profound)

Music: I think we owe everything to the Beatles. I love folk, rock, alternative... White Stripes, Mason Jennings... I just can't stand what passes for country. Give me some Johnny Cash!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family
looking forward to a fun hike
The Beatles
Movies
Day dreaming
Traveling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The twists and turns life takes us based on the things we do and don't do. It's crazy how we randomly meet people or experience things that change the course of our lives and those around us.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing the moon walk at a local bar, watching a movie, or getting ready to go hiking over the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm actually on a dating site is something that I've admitted to no one else.

I daydream constantly and sometimes I'll bust out laughing out of nowhere about some hilarious thing in my head and people will look at me like I'm crazy.

I absolutely love to dance... but I'm a little freaky. Imagine a cross between John Travolta and Big Bird.

I once went on a date with a gal who I met on a dating website that basically wanted a green card marriage. She made a great dinner, but it wasn't that great. Awkward.....

Ok, that's enough for now.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You need someone to hang out with... go to the museum, movie, dancing, hiking... somethings are just better with another person. If you're down with hanging out and seeing where it leads give me a holler.