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30 Pasadena, CA Genderfluid


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–44
  • Located anywhere
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:40am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
More than $1,000,000
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
first off, black life matters and if you're not having a weekly existential crisis because everything is crazy fucked right now, i don't know what you're doing with your life. now that that's out of the way...

when i was 7, i went to church for the first time in my memory. after the 3-hour service the guy my mom was dating asked me, "Did you see all the pictures of Jesus??" I looked at him and said, "Who's Jesus?"

i swipe left when i see an american flag. a day has 5 tea times. i'm queer/bisexual. my room is my temple. my space is adorned with plantlife. ideally plants would be growing out of my corporeal sack but hey what can you do.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
the spectre of communism is upon us
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-covering my mistakes with grace.

-singing The Who out loud and replacing all the lyrics with "rock and roll"

-clicking yes when i mean to click no. clicking 'like' when i mean to click 'pass'.

-seeing blips, drinking beats, anticipating tremolos; sensing the mood and deftly injecting the right music into whatever situation.

-woodworking, building fires, shooting photos, gardening, being generally useful.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i could say whatever i want but the truth is probably "that guy looks like adrien brody". at least that's the most repeated thing i hear in life, ever, all the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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currently reading:
-Male Fantasies (feminist analysis of letters written by proto-fascist Freikorp soldiers in 1920s Germany)
- This Nonviolence Stuff'll Get You Killed
- Dixie Be Damned: 300 Years of Insurrection in the American South
- Anarchism by Daniel Guerin

past faves include: Book of Lies: the Disinformation Guide, Childhood's End, Jorge Luis Borges, An Occurrence at Owl Creek Bridge, Hunter Thompson, Terence McKenna, damn near anything about psychedelics or cults, Negroes With Guns by Robert F Williams, How Nonviolence Protects the State.

movies are good. at least, good ones are. Repulsion, Jacob's Ladder, Picnic at Hanging Rock, Manson, Born in Flames, Invocation of My Demon Brother or anything by Kenneth Anger, Rosemary's Baby, etc. I'm very curious about weird new unexplored movies. Recommend some to me and i'll do the same in return.

music... music is really important. stereolab, siouxsie & the banshees, boards of canada, portishead, my bloody valentine, slowdive, amon duul II, can, flying lotus, ras g, madlib, mos def, j dilla, tangerine dream, manson family, gaslamp killer, sun ra, pharoah sanders, clams casino, this heat, joy division, colleen, faust, chelsea wolfe, souls of mischief, linda perhacs, psychic tv, tha blue herb, tokimonsta, xmal deutschland, wire, the fall, bobby beausoleil, washed out, marine girls, cluster, brian eno, anika, beak>, alice coltrane, slum village, yeah...

just cross-reference with this:

food? i just ate a canteloupe... i like simple, raw foods. mediterranean, sushi... is whiskey a food?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.


a vision of an empowering future where we have chosen to persistently break ties with old structures of oppression and lifelessness.

music; imaginary orbs floating 2 feet over our heads pumping out our brain music 24 hours a day

my regrettably Castroist chihuahua

the mindless advice and input from people i strive to be the exact opposite of. this keeps me sharp.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
full communism

where my mind might flourish and create.

how we are destined to repeat our mistakes throughout history.

that i need more late 80s music to remind me of that era and how rad it was.

how i wish i could hang with erykah badu as she pops up on news broadcasts.

what if i'm lying to myself about who i am and my matches are only in love with a manufactured self?

and what is happening to people when more and more close personal relationships are built off of logarithmic dating websites instead of spontaneous human interaction? What if okcupid and eharmony are intended to strengthen certain cultures by insulating them amongst people of their own kind, so they may procreate and further reinforce their subculture? What if all of this shit is meant to isolate us from fleshy human beings, in favor of digital privileged people with anglo-literacy/computers?

on that tip, i'm endlessly interested in the explosion of radical politics, queer rebellion, black power, and the concurrent reaction against it that has manifested itself in a violent resurgence of white supremacy, patriarchy, and hypercapitalism that gives this country that distinct smell of sadness and death. cheers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
thrashing, sobbing, taking one sip of whiskey and smashing the bottle across the room. the whiskey goes everywhere. once again i am victorious.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Angela Davis, Lorenzo Ervin, and Assata Shakur each pay me $1000 per day to foment revolution in message boards. the rumors are true.
You should message me if
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you've listened to sonic youth in the past week.

you want to do a photo shoot or make a film!

Or if you aren't American and can help me leave the country