36 San Francisco, CA
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My self-summary
i like contradictions in a personality. i'm quiet & reserved and also a freak. i love my sense of humour but it feels like there aren't many people who really get it (or maybe i'm not as funny as i think i am). Can get snobby about music and food but very open and interested in new or different types.

i like to date, to go out, to get sweaty dancing in a packed crowd, but also crave the cozy cook-dinner-and-watch-movies part of relationship.

i'm a NorCal Bay Area lifer. travelled a bit of the world as a tourist or student. i love the outdoors, Big Sur, camping, hot springs, live music, dancing, eating out and being with friends and family.
What I’m doing with my life
I manage a small business & warehouse called SF Raw located in "butchertown" (southeast of the mission) which sources and distributes fresh food to people who feed their pets and themselves a high quality, humanely raised diet.

i play guitar and sing in various rock/pop/blues/folk projects and am fighting to become a household name in some circle of the underground rock world. learning the flute next.

I would love to do a yoga teacher training someday. I dig vinyasa, anusara, and kundalini.
I’m really good at
preparing elaborate breakfasts, bicycle maintenance, jogging, finding cool music, yoga, cat proofing, keeping appointments, microsoft excel, reading aloud, catching falling objects
The first things people usually notice about me
Long dark hair and skinny with a full beard gets me compared to Jesus a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
gore vidal, william burroughs, roberto bolano, john updike, borges, joseph conrad, david foster wallace, joan didion. Wire magazine

david lynch, john waters, pt anderson, wes anderson, michael moore, jim jarmusch, almodovar, michealangelo antonioni, the coen brothers, christopher guest

david bowie & brian eno, elton john (up to Yellow Brick Road), stevie wonder, steely dan, joni mitchell, bob dylan, neil young, love, the dead, black sabbath, big star, arthur russell, wire, magnetic fields, sonic youth, PJ (& DJ) harvey, elliott smith, destroyer, yo la tengo, erykah badu, grizzly bear, joanna newsom, nina simone, john coltrane, herbie hancock,

food philosophy is influenced by Michael Pollan, Ray Peat, Sally Fallon (westin a. price). eat local! eat natural! eat butter! I find joy in cooking, my specialties are breakfasts and tacos
The six things I could never do without
dental floss
3 good friends
A pet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
melody harmony and rhythm.

Health & fitness

how to stop thinking so much



Questions like, in the future will lack of energy cause us to live life at a slower pace, thereby reversing the path of human progress over the past thousands of years? Or, how is the passage of time experienced by trees? Or, if you took all of my dna and stretched it out, how far could it reach into space?
On a typical Friday night I am
"i drink a little beer in the tavern, sing me a bit of these workingman's blues"
-merle haggard
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not a crier and i wish i were