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the_lavaman

52 M Raleigh, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish, Chinese

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I can always find things in common with people I meet, but... you either click with someone or you don't, and you can't really put into words why you do. I'd rather clean the grout in my shower with someone I feel a connection with than do something "fun" with someone I don't. That's why I'd rather meet in real life than read and write profiles.

But here we are....

I like to laugh at a lot of what life throws me (but then everyone thinks they have a good sense of humor, right?) I'm honest and have a lot of integrity (except for the What I'm Doing With My Life section - I lied about that.) I like good conversation - sometimes funny or goofy, sometimes serious, and sometimes intimate. You'll probably find yourself feeling comfortable enough to tell me things you might not have told anyone else, and we may realize things about ourselves we never knew before.

You should also have solid values, be reliable and trustworthy, have integrity, and basically do the right thing. But you're not uptight or prissy. You have fun drinking, but you don't drive drunk. You're not easily offended, but you have some class. You don't watch the Three Stooges (because you're a girl), but you tolerate those who might (ahem). You might eat dessert first sometimes, but you basically live a healthy life. You were entertained by Pulp Fiction, but you don't actually do intravenous drugs yourself, let alone shoot every third person you see or keep a gimp in your basement.

I like to spend time with my son, my friends, and you. I also take time for myself to do projects around the house or just recharge the batteries. So, you should have some things of your own going on and be a little independent too. Don't get me wrong - there's a time and place for being clingy ;-) Maybe sometime I'll use the bongers on you, and I'm sure you have something up your sleeve for returning the favor.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Secret Agent, Underwear Model, Super Genius
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I could list them, but here's a quote from a (pretty lame) movie called "It's Pat" that sums up how relevant I think it would be in actually finding someone compatible.

-Do you like movies?
-Yes, yes I do. I love movies. Do you know what I especially love are good movies.
-Ohhh, you're kidding! I love good movies too!
-Really, Oh. Do you know what I hate are bad movies.
-Me too! We're so alike.
-I think that dinner is probably one of my favorite meals of the day.
-Mine too! This is downright eerie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- my son
- ice cream
- nice stereo
- shelf of books
- soccer
- internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
improving..... various things
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're kinda cool