For all those boys who write on their profiles "must be fit, I take care of myself so should you"
thin ≠ fit
Please say you're looking for a thin/skinny type because honey, I'm fit but I'm not a size 4. And sometimes those skinny girls aren't "fit" at all they're just skinny, but they're still exactly what you want. Now am I a star athlete? Hell no, but my waist and hips are not an indicator of how "fit" I am. I still have a strong body that doesn't mind walking miles around the city and can keep up with my sister's kids when they want to play and it can certainly keep you busy all night long. I have boobs, ass, belly and thighs but none of that keeps me from being healthy. I'm still active, I don't have health problems, and I'm sick of men treating me like I'm a fetish or stereotyping me as something that only black guys (not that I have anything against them) would be into because I'm "thick."
I am a woman. I have curves. I'm not thin, but I am fit. I am beautiful. And I will crush a man's skull like an egg between these thighs if he tries to tell me that "I need to take better care of myself" (be skinny) so that he can find me more attractive. Didn't you hear sweetheart? I'm not here to please you. I'm here to please myself and I don't need you for that. There's always something longer and thicker at the store that won't stop until I'm satisfied.
Now bring on the hate messages, I dare you.