Let me say that again:
I'm fat - no, really.
I'm married (we are not monogamous - my being here is in no way "cheating").
If either of the above is a deal breaker for you, you probably ought not read any further.
Here are a few other potential deal-breakers:
I'm a leftist; an atheist and a skeptic; a gun owner; a gearhead; a gamer; a feminist; a diabetic...
I mention all this because I really don't want either of us waste our time here - if any of that stuff, or my being overtly masculine - is a deal-breaker, then click that "hide" button.
I identify as a queer pansexual (pan rather than bi, as gender is *not* a binary condition), ethically non-monogamous, mildly kinky, and sex-positive.
I'm an oddball; my views on politics, culture, sex and other things are often decidedly different than those of most people I've met. I am often amusing; if our mutual senses of humor line up, it's likely that I'll keep you laughing.
I work in tech. I am also a professional artist.
I am a traveler when time & money line up to allow for it.