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theartofthelurk

33 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:30pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
People like to justify to themselves that the work they are doing is valid and it seems natural to use words to tell yourself that what you are doing is important and meaningful. But it’s important to not to too narrowly define what you’re doing through the use of language. People want to feel like they have a grip on things and so using words to make sense of what you’re doing might provide a feeling of relief and control but be careful you don’t make your project less interesting by having it fit neatly into a scheme of words. Images have a power that is different from the power of words and they communicate in ways that words cannot. In today’s culture, words dominate our thinking and, used in a lazy manner, they help sustain a spectrum of fundamentalist thought. Being able to accept ambiguity leads to a better quality of life and better work

Whatever
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Here's a random list of random things I like

Shoe Gaze, Radiolab, The Velvet Underground, vintage motorcycles, Sushi, The Sun Also Rises, Dylan, Leon the Professional, Old Sixties Garage rock, Delta Blues, Sleep, Spiritualized, NPR, John Berger, Notes from the Underground, The Rolling Stones, Slowdive, Woodworking, Kubric, Joyce, Stienbeck, Fuzz, The Black Angels, Electric Wizard, Any BBC Science Documentaries, Mad Men, The Holy Mountain, and I have a few guilty pleasures of course.

Don't even get me started on art.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
You know stuff like being a better man, being a better artist, friend, trying not to be an asshole, rainbow colored gnomes, and did I leave the oven on?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
We share similar sensibilities and goals.
You possess the potential to ruin me.
You know a good Surf spot and don't mind taking someone out that hasn't surfed in ten years.
You wanna play pool.
Your up for booze fueled conversations about art and ideas.

You want to listen to stoner metal and make out....duh!

Please no Burners, Hippies, New age blah blah blahs