Some little girl on here was told me I looked 33 going on 53, I had to chuckle at that one... She also told me that I have a really bad tan. I need to appologize for that, I am 50% Cherokee and 50% Irish, so I tan in a weird reddish color. My camera is a 12 megapixel deal, and it can't seam to make me look good.... Of course I find it funny that she was so into the physical that instead of attacking anything else, she had to go for appearance.

I am pretty successful in what I do, so why couldn't I be just as successful in a long distance relationship. Also, be a little bit honest ok? If your name has the word, cutie, honey or sexy in it, make sure you match those traits... OKCUPID is alot like American Idol, some people have been told they are super gorgeous there entire life, but really they are just average. I mean, I am no cream of the crop, but I am not calling myself, SEXYHUNKLY_BRADLEY either....

I guess you can say I am just that typical nice guy who doesn't seem to have a Mrs. Right in my life right now. I had plenty of girlfriends in the past, but I was too selfish to keep them... now I am a changed man, and I want to find someone who wants to just have some good experiences with me and wants to have fun and always be learning. I don't take myself too seriously and the person I am with shouldn't do that either. I love the arts, and entertainment...

Some say that I am a dreamer and that I find too much good in people around me. They are impressed by how I give everyone a fair shot. The way I work is everyone gets one chance to show me they are not like everyone else says. The thing about it is, I look at people differently then most. I have been on all sides of this world, and I have seen so many different types of life, that I understand why some people live like they do...

My life is best summed up by the song, 'Wear Sunscreen' here are those lyrics...
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Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of '97... wear sunscreen.
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be IT.

The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.

I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.

You are NOT as fat as you imagine.

Don't worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing every day that scares you.

Sing.
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts, don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.

Floss.
Don't waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long, and in the end, it's only with yourself.

Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don't.

Get plenty of calcium.

Be kind to your knees, you'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't, maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't, maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself, either. Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's. Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

Dance. Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.

Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.

Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good.

Be nice to your siblings; they are your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography in lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old, and when you do you'll fantasize that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.

But trust me on the sunscreen.

I started a children's theatre in Iowa. I love acting, directing and working with kids, so this was a dream job for me. IT is fairly new, but I know this is where I will be 20 years from now.

Other than that I am just living my life day by day. If I began to worry about the future then I think I would go crazy. Basically, why worry? Did you know that Simon Cowell moved back in with his parents when he was 33? He lived with them for two years and was penniless. Now he is the riches, and I believe most powerful person in entertainment. Simon makes and breaks careers just with his insight.

I think it will be funny ten years from now when I am looking back at this lonely and building time in my life. I will be with my spouse and we will just laugh and laugh.

I am also doing P90X now, WOW, what a workout! If anyone has every really wanted to lose weight, I really recommend P90X!

I also love to just push buttons. If you start to flirt with me, I'll just flirt back to push your buttons. SO don't try and be too much of a tease, I don't break easily..

karaoke, ballroom dancing, partying and having a great time. I love to write and direct theatre. I think improvisation is another one of my strong points, not just in entertainment, but also how I improv live and love. I am always willing to try something different or go an extra mile for someone I care about.

my outgoingness. The Ability I have to come up to someone and talk regardless of how much I know them. I can come into a room of perfect strangers and by the end of the day, i can have about 5 or 6 new friends. I only have a few so called, 'enemies' in my life. These are mostly just people who do not share the exact same views as me, and are always trying to bring me down. It is extremely hard to bring me down.

It's a Wonderful Life
Moulin Rouge
Scrubs
Family Guy
Robot Chicken
The Office
Deal or No Deal
Heroes!(WHERE ARE YOU HEROES!)
Dazed and Confused
Back to the Future
(All three of them)
Bill and Ted
(both of them)
All the Shreks
All the Austin Powers
All the Spidermans

my teeth
my hands
understanding
humor
music
and Marshmallow peeps!

nothing, because I am out there doing stuff! I know that sounds a little cliche, but it is true. If more people spent as much menergy on doing things as they did on wishing about doing things, there would be so much more in this world and we would be farther than ever before. The reason society has developed so much in the last 30 years is because people have actually been given more of a choice to think outload and outside the box.

out at the local bar in town, hanging out with my friends.. Maybe I will catch a movie by myself. I have been known to go the casino and spend a few hours there.

I am afraid of Dolls.... mostly just China dolls..
and ventriloquist dummies.

I also watch ghost stories on Discovery Channel and then scare myself into having to have a light on...

you just want to get to know someone who is a great guy and wants to show you respect and fun.