thebaylover
54 Scottsdale, AZ
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My self-summary
** My dog Sophie died December 15th, 2015. She was my companion, confidante, and love of my life. I miss her dearly. If you're a dog lover, you'll get that. If not, you won't and we're not going to be a connection, so I wish you well and will save you time.

Happy 2016!

Ladies, greetings. Thanks for dropping by and looking me over. There's so much more to a person than just the profile, the words they write, etc. So if you'd be so kind, look at this as a very light overview of me. Ask me anything you like, share with me anything you like. I am open in some ways and closed in others. (I don't share what's shared with me).

I've experienced life, and I've experienced death twice within the past 3 years. My Father passed in 2013, and my Mother passed on Feb 17th of 2015. In between that a divorce finalized in 2014. I am beginning life over again April 1st, the day my Mother joins my Father in Arlington Nation Cemetery in Virginia.

I look forward to re-exploring all that is, but doing so with a zest for being alive and being in the moment. If that's you, then we have some common ground. If that's not you, then please know I wish you nothing but complete happiness and peace beyond all understanding. If I can ever be here for you, feel free to reach out and connect with me as I am everywhere. You'll understand that more should we meet.

I like being active, but there are times when I am just happy being at peace and being still to listen to what life is telling me . If that's something you can enjoy, that's cool. I've traveled for many years in my life and now resettling in Scottsdale. I was born in London (no accent), and lived in The Philippines, Taiwan, Guam. Have visited Japan, Thailand, Hong Kong, Africa, Sri Lanka and even the Persian Gulf while I was in the Navy in the late 70's.

I am a very relaxed, unstressed, kind of guy. Drama only appreciated in some movies, and any baggage you have, please make sure it fits in the overhead compartments here, here and here. :-)

**Cat Owners...I have an allergy to cat hair. If your cat is hairless, not a problem, or if you don't mind always being at my place...not a problem**
What I’m doing with my life
Life is to be enjoyed. I am about LIVING IN THE MOMENT.
I’m really good at
Anything I put my mind to, as well as allowing people space to know they're worthy of great things in this world.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my smile, and that I resemble Robin Williams when he was living. RIP ROBIN!!! And now that he's gone they're constantly reminded of him by me and I am humbled by that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many of each to list. Let's talk about them when we meet
The six things I could never do without
Sophie the Wonder Dog!, Water, Food, Air, Shelter, Clothes, SEX (if you're not into having sex, we're NOT a match. I didn't come here to test the waters of celibacy.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's next for me in this life/time segment
On a typical Friday night I am
Get back to me once I have found a stable place to live
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
nothing. After all, once admitted...it's no longer private
You should message me if
**Short-term dating can evolve into long term, just not on date number one. Put the wedding gown & rollerblades away**

**You don't own a cat** (am allergic. I love them, just from a distance).

Thanks for reading and for laughing because life is meant to be enjoyed and profiles are such a small picture of actual people.
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