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23 Saint Paul, MN Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 28
Asexual, Heteroflexible, Questioning, Demisexual
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Less than $20,000
Seeing Someone
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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My name is Kit and I really hate these description things. I prefer just answering questions, so if you have a question, feel free to ask it. I struggle a lot with depression and anxiety, but I'm trying to work it out. It's a work in progress and sometimes progress starts going backwards. I love movies and TV shows and books and SFF conventions. I'm an aspiring writer, though I haven't actually really written anything. Plenty of vague ideas, but nothing substantial. I'm kind of a hermit, preferring to stay in my nice safe apartment rather than deal with people and society. I have issues with crowds and loud noises, so I'm pretty much always listening to my headphones. As for what I listen to, it's a pretty wide range. Country, rock, pop, musicals, alternative, etc. I don't listen to most rap, dubstep, opera, most christian music or heavy metal (if the whole song is screaming, then no). I can be pretty hyper and excitable, which has irritated people in the past. I spend a lot of time online. Most would say more than is healthy. I play quite a few games, preferring to stick with RPGs and things that have strong stories behind them. Bioware is pretty much my constant obsession. I'm always in the middle of one of the Mass Effect or Dragon Age games. I have a neverending list of shows and movies to watch, so half the time I end up rewatching old shows. Favorites include all shows in the Whedonverse, everything from Stargate, Warehouse 13, and several others that I haven't finished. It's a long list. My list of books to read is even longer. I'll read anything that peaks my interest, but I tend to gravitate towards SFF, paranormal romance and YA novels. I've been woefully neglecting my TBR list. I also own more books than any other 23 year old I know. Hell, I own more books than most other people I know period.

I'll leave it here for now. If you want to know something, ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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Still learning to live on my own and working on getting a certificate for Medical Billing & Coding.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastinating? Wasting time? Making obscure references/quotes and being sad when no one responds correctly? I have no idea.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends. Probably the headphones that are permanently attached to my ears when I'm out in public.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Ever After, Contact, King Arthur, Titanic, Lord of the Rings, Divergent, A Little Princess, Homeward Bound, Atlantis: The Lost Empire, Any and all Disney movies (to which I will gleefully sing along), The Losers, Pacific Rim, Mr and Mrs Smith, Beautiful Creatures, Cabin in the Woods, Cloud Atlas, Constantine, Dead Poets Society, Halloweentown, The Conjuring, Mama, The Possession, Muppet Treasure Island, One Night with the King, Red Dawn (2012), Princess Diaries, Sahara, The Mummy, Prince of Egypt, The Three Musketeers (1997), The Unborn, Treasure Planet, Hook, Shakespeare in Love, Romeo + Juliet, Hocus Pocus, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Princess Bride, Ferngully, Quest for Camelot, Anastasia, Secret of N.I.M.H, All Dogs go to Heaven, Land Before Time, Balto, Sinbad, All of the Librarian movies, Robin Hood: Men in Tights, Swan Princess (only the first one), Ghostbusters, Stardust, Practical Magic, Emperor's New Groove, Pride & Prejudice, Sense & Sensibility (2009 mini series), Ella Enchanted, Serenity, Snow White and the Huntsman, Jurassic Park

Books: Sign of Seven Trilogy by Nora Roberts, The Giver Quartet by Lois Lowry, Anything by Sherrilyn Kenyon, Amelia Atwater-Rhodes, Harry Potter.....There are more, but all my books are in piles right now, so I can't look at them.

TV: Stargate, Firefly, Angel, Buffy, Charmed, Supernatural, Criminal Minds, Hannibal, Destination Truth, Rizzoli & Isles, Whose Line

Video games: Mass Effect, Dragon Age, Tomb Raider, Thief, Assassin's Creed, Bioshock, Life Is Strange
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My phone (no really I damn near had a panic attack when one of my friends hid it as a joke)
My headphones (see above)
A safe zone (somewhere I can hide when I need to)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting in front of my computer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm in the middle of trying to figure out my sexual/romantic orientation. Currently I describe it with wobbly hand gestures and noncommittal noises.
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