I would love to share my life with my best friend and lover; an
attractive(to me), independent and intelligent woman with a more
youthful, positive attitude than most women my age. Someone who has
an appreciation for others and their experiences. Will consider
younger women as long as they have learned something about
themselves and are honest about it. I work full time, with a good
income and a nice house. I would like to be treated like the man of
the house. Manners really go a long way with me. I've always been a
bit "outside" the box; many societal conventions are casualties.
But some "old-fashioned" ones are stronger with me than elsewhere.
Be careful with any assumptions you may have. You will always get
the real me, like it or not. You do you, I'll do me. But I'll bond
forever. In exchange, you will be treated as the intelligent, sexy
and capable woman you are. Constant positivity, affection and humor
are necessary for the Good Life. I will ALWAYS return the same with
interest. I have no children, but will always believe in a strong
family bond. Thanks!
What I’m doing with my life
Maintaining my integrity, preparing for retirement(someday),
staying close to family, doing the daily chores, learning something
I’m really good at
Completing my goals, focusing on the task at hand, sticking to my
principles, staying calm under pressure. Thinking things out before
acting, acknowledging those I respect and value.
The first things people usually notice about me
Big, easy going, optimistic, humor, MANNERS, conversational. I was
told recently I have "farmer" hands, whatever that means.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV- I'm a big fan of the Canadian series "Made in Canada"; Movies-
Vintage films of the 1930's, comedys; Music-blues, rock, anything
but cRap and gNashville; Food-Simple, well made American dishes,
Italian, Mexican, Mediterranean. Style--love the American Art Deco
and Moderne schools of design; I always have examples around.
The six things I could never do without
Intelligent, respectful conversation.
Love and Affection
Manners and civility
Optimism about tomorrow.
Yes, I know more than six. I've got more than six things to list!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The counter-productive nature of Corporate buzz-speak!
visionary cloud infrastructure
and so many more
This sort of of nonsense is the arch enemy of communication.
I believe that the personality traits that work best in business
will nearly always destroy your personal life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having a nice dinner, enjoying the peace after a workweek. Enjoying
my best friends. Waxing the cat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
..wouldn't be private any more, now would it?
You should message me if
What am I looking for in you?================You're intelligent,
very sweet with an optimistic and pleasant attitude. You enjoy
being a woman and look feminine and comfortable for the man in your
life. Independent and responsible, you have confidence in your
beliefs and have your own interests; you feel no need to change
anyone else. Ethical and spiritual. You seek out the simple
pleasures, knowing the best cannot be bought. You refuse to ever
let yourself be the victim. Let's enjoy long conversations and road
trips that may go nowhere in particular, since the destination
really isn't important. Looks forward to quiet times with a big
Teddy Bear. You know that everything about life you learned in high
school is wrong. Your preference is wood over plastic. You can talk
and listen to the animals. And that your longer hair really is more
feminine. Understands that men are visual creatures and includes a
Isn't frightened when the power goes out.
I'd like to thank everyone for all the winks, pictures and
messages! I have a suggestion or two- please post a good, close-up
picture with a SMILE and WITHOUT sunglasses. If I can't see your
eyes, I can't see YOU. I delete anybody whose primary picture is
with sunglasses; it shows you really aren't serious about being
open with anyone.
Please, no pictures of the scenery on your last vacation or of your
dog (I'm sure he's a great dog, but I don't want to date
In return, I'll promise to never post any pictures with beer,
cigarettes, pickup trucks, fish, Harleys, dead animals or other