I'm like Baskin Robins, but I'm all out of vanilla. I'm available
in one scoop or two; on a sugar cone, waffle cone, but never a cup.
I'm always sweet but too much of me at once could result in a
headache. Best idea to avoid the headache... no teeth.
What I’m doing with my life
Living life to the fullest every single moment of every single day.
I do that by; spending as much time as possible with my little
girl, working really hard, and playing just as hard. Occasionally I
sleep, but only when none of those other three are options.
I’m really good at
What a lovely question. Really wants one to jump out with full ego
engaged. But I'm happy to share.
Being a father.
Making strangers laugh.
Making friends laugh.
Making strange friends.
Making my friends strange.
Strange answers to friendly questions.
I'm creative, intelligent, and witty. I'm modest and sincere.
And since I'm being so modest, I will say that I do take pride and
enjoyment in being a really good and giving lover. Everybody has to
leave happy from my boudoir, or I just keep trying. I take as much
satisfaction from giving as receiving, and to clarify, I really and
truly like receiving.
The first things people usually notice about me
It's difficult to say if its my dazzling wit, sparkling
personality, or the way I tend to fill a room with both. My
physical presence is as impressive as my gregarious nature. Nothing
about me is small. Well nothing I'm sharing on this site.
Oh, and people try to tell me its my deep blue eyes, but they are
just trying to pick one thing to focus on.
The six things I could never do without
My daughter. Everything else is gravy. But I really like gravy, so
here's five more I'd rather not live without. I'm leaving out
basics of food, shelter, etc. Those are assumed.
A good drink with a good woman who understands the good time that
neither of else would feel good without. That would usually include
a good meal and a good and sleepless night.
Got it? 5 things there, all good. Drink, woman, time, meal,
If you have questions, please move on to the profile of some
sensitive ponytail guy. I'm respectful, caring, decent, but know
what I want and with whom. Capisce?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
There are three basic topics that occupy my time outside of work
hours. I do take my work seriously. All three topics can be summed
up as relating to getting the most out of life, but there are
shades of how I choose to do that.
I think about the nature of being. Being the best father I can be.
The best friend I can be. But really, I want to be the best version
of me possible, which feeds the rest. That means that there is a
philosophical side to this loud boisterous hunk of man that I am. I
don't sit around and brood, but I'm happy to discuss it. We've all
had our paths, and mine has helped me become a person I'm proud to
be and to share.
Number two on the list is thinking about how to keep the good times
rolling. Time is short, but I don't like to rush. Achieving the
balance of always showing up at the right party, being the life of
said party, but knowing when to leave and whom to leave with. That
takes a lot of centering and patience to achieve. Then I just have
to let go and tear it up. I'm rather adept at tearing it up.
Lastly, I do spend a lot of time thinking about sex. Not about how
to get it. I know how to do that. But how I want to make sure that
whomever I'm sharing my time and bed with (or couch, or kitchen
counter...), that they are having as much fun and satisfaction as I
am. Woody Allen once said it best when he said, "Sex between two
people can be a beautiful thing, as long as you're between the
right two people."
On a typical Friday night I am
Every other Friday I'm with my daughter. When I am with my daughter
I am with no one else who is not my family. That time is defended
like a lion. Know that. Respect that.
Every other Friday night is another story. There are always good
meals and good drinks with good people. Those could be my friends
or my lovers. Reservations are required. Message me for more
information. Ask about our chef's tasting menu.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This question is wasted on me. I am not one for secrets. If you are
one for secrets, don't tell me. I'm likely to have them put up in
sky writing over Lake Michigan. Well, that's an exaggeration.
Here's a private thing I'm willing to admit. I am friendly with
everybody, but I'm very selective as to who gets to truly be my
friend. If someone gets that honor, they're secrets are safer with
me than anywhere. For all my bluster, I actually pride myself on my
You should message me if
...you actually understand my profile and why I list long-term
dating, short-term dating, and casual sex. Dating is dating. If you
want a husband, you should absolutely not message me EVER. I have
been a husband. I was very good at it. Now, I am done with that.
Now I am very good at dating and enjoying casual sex. Strings are
for tying, that's it. I have caring and compassion, and we can
share good times for a long-term, but never expect it to "go to the
If that level sounds good, why haven't you written to me yet?
References available upon request. Equal opportunity expected.