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43 • Woodridge, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 27–47
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 2:29am
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Dropped out of university
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- English (Fluently)
Being a father.
Making strangers laugh.
Making friends laugh.
Making strange friends.
Making my friends strange.
Strange answers to friendly questions.
I'm creative, intelligent, and witty. I'm modest and sincere.
And since I'm being so modest, I will say that I do take pride and enjoyment in being a really good and giving lover. Everybody has to leave happy from my boudoir, or I just keep trying. I take as much satisfaction from giving as receiving, and to clarify, I really and truly like receiving.
Oh, and people try to tell me its my deep blue eyes, but they are just trying to pick one thing to focus on.
A good drink with a good woman who understands the good time that neither of else would feel good without. That would usually include a good meal and a good and sleepless night.
Got it? 5 things there, all good. Drink, woman, time, meal, sleepless nights.
If you have questions, please move on to the profile of some sensitive ponytail guy. I'm respectful, caring, decent, but know what I want and with whom. Capisce?
I think about the nature of being. Being the best father I can be. The best friend I can be. But really, I want to be the best version of me possible, which feeds the rest. That means that there is a philosophical side to this loud boisterous hunk of man that I am. I don't sit around and brood, but I'm happy to discuss it. We've all had our paths, and mine has helped me become a person I'm proud to be and to share.
Number two on the list is thinking about how to keep the good times rolling. Time is short, but I don't like to rush. Achieving the balance of always showing up at the right party, being the life of said party, but knowing when to leave and whom to leave with. That takes a lot of centering and patience to achieve. Then I just have to let go and tear it up. I'm rather adept at tearing it up.
Lastly, I do spend a lot of time thinking about sex. Not about how to get it. I know how to do that. But how I want to make sure that whomever I'm sharing my time and bed with (or couch, or kitchen counter...), that they are having as much fun and satisfaction as I am. Woody Allen once said it best when he said, "Sex between two people can be a beautiful thing, as long as you're between the right two people."
Every other Friday night is another story. There are always good meals and good drinks with good people. Those could be my friends or my lovers. Reservations are required. Message me for more information. Ask about our chef's tasting menu.
If that level sounds good, why haven't you written to me yet? References available upon request. Equal opportunity expected.
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