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41 • Chicago, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 5:30pm
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Used up
- Mostly anything
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from space camp
- Art / Music / Writing
- Rather not say
- Has a kid
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Other (Okay)
I turn towards dive bars. Dig great food, but don't need to talk of it incessantly. Love baseball, Jim Thompson, and honesty. Follow my gut, trust my intellect, keep good company with good people and like to re-invent myself when necessary.
I got a great family, a former dog, am happy with my own smile and musical tastes. Hate conformity and extremists in any form. Quick to respond, but usually on the mark. My mark. Just be yourself and the rest will follow.
Don't care what you do unless you do. Traveling is essential and a turnover in basketball. I don't want to judge people, i try not too, but occasionally fail. I got me a well-earned belly, but not out of control one.
Really, I like me, but not overly into me. Seeing what's down the road.
Bergman, Coens, Sam Fuller, Weir, Sarah Polley, Duplass Brothers, Scorcese, Malick, Noah Baumbach, PT Anderson, Woody Allen, and those are just the easily to mind ones
TV - not so much, like Walking Dead, Mad Men, Craig Ferguson, Breaking Bad - lot of weird stuff, hard to stomach much network bile.
Food - if it ain't squirmin', I'll be confimin'. Except Beets. Change me on beets, please. (Please note: I have can now - when properly grilled - dig the beets, somewhat)
Music - indie rock, old r&b, obscure shit, The Ramones, Hasil Adkins, Alex Chilton, Isley Brothers, Ty Segall
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