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thecabbageman

23 / F / bisexual / Single

Brisbane, Australia

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Height
5' 4" (1.64m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am inquiring, creative, and discerning.

My Self-Summary

I enjoy thinking outside the box and appreciate others who do also. I enjoy the creative outlet that dancing provides, it makes me happy. I love to talk and interact with people and hear their stories and thoughts. After all understanding other people naturally aids in understanding oneself.

I am open minded. I have good intuition. I enjoy living, as painful as it seems sometimes. I am honest and tend to dislike superficiality.

I enjoy culture, the finer things in life. I enjoy eating out, dressing up, seeing films, dance, theatre, art exhibitions, museums and concerts. I am also just as happy being in the garden gardening, I plan to start my own vegie patch very soon.

I enjoy being in nature at the beach and body surfing. I love watching fireworks, walking at night/ dawn on random nights with awesome people, swinging on swings (most likely, sadly, an annual event)

I love hanging with friends, I enjoy laughing! We humans simply don't do this enough! Hugging, kissing, crying (it's not all bad), and attempting to keep active regularly with yoga. I have quiet a fiery temperament but am mindful and sensitive enough to not let it overpower my personality.

I look forward to eventually travelling in due course, Japan and Europe are top on my list of places to see.

I am trying to read more interesting books these days, usually a classic.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently working in a Call Centre for St Vincent De Paul which I find quite interesting, busy and rewarding. Where I take calls from those in need of food, clothing, and/or financial assistance.

I’m really good at

Listening/ conversing.

The first things people usually notice about me

My kick ass (dyed) red hair! My nose piercing.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I LOVE Korean food,oh so tasty. Hare Krishna food, vegetarian dishes. Most food I like actually :)
Some of my favourite films are Dead Man, Alien, Baz Luhrmans Romeo and Juliet, The Wizard of Oz, American Beauty, Donnie Darko, The Chumscrubber, Gattaca, Magnolia, Good Will Hunting. etc
I love independent/arthouse films.

Some artists I enjoy consist of - Neil Young, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley, John Mellencamp, Ani Difranco, The Mars Volta, The Red Hot Chili Peppers, Tori Amos, At The Drive In, Pearl Jam, Nick Cave and The Bad Seeds, The Cranberries, Jeff Buckley, Bumblebeez, Hilltop Hoods, Regina Spektor, Ben Harper, Hole, The Violent Femmes, Cat Power, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Yothu Yindi, Kasabian, The Grates, Massive Attack, CoCoRosie and Animal Collective, I could go on.

I also love listening to good live music and the atmosphere associated with such events.

The six things I could never do without

Music, I would go crazy. Friends, family. Putty Tats. A pen and paper. Some form of drug, be that a cup of tea or a drink socially, we all need our drugs :) A book. More than six.. whatever.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Psychology, philosophy and spirituality. Me, myself and I. This crazy world I am part of and the crazy people that are in it, (including me), of course. My relationships, desires, hopes, dreams and ambitions- what drives me and others.

On a typical Friday night I am

Doing whatever it is that the universe presents to me on that night, or days leading up to that night.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmmm... mmm uhhh.. errr...no.

You should message me if

You are interesting, have a brain of some sort and choose to utilise it, rather than wasting it..
Are comfortable expressing yourself through what you wear, what you say etc without fear of punishment/ social ostracism etc..
Most importantly, are a decent human being to others, or at least attempt to be.

I am more interested in getting to know some girls at the moment, however don't let that stop you if you're a guy.