I enjoy many aspects of BDSM, and consider myself to be a submissive who occasionally switches roles. In both (yes, that's two) of my serious relationships so far I've been blessed with a partner who understands my desires and has enough interest in BDSM to fulfill them. My current partner even discovered enjoying it much more than he'd imagined :)
While I generally lean towards preferring women, in my life so far partners have been mostly men. Go figure :) I don't mind, though. I love my sweetie (and he's got a yummy feminine side to him).
I am geeky, open minded, and scorptastic